You must care about your self-esteem, because your self-esteem is worth nothing in others' eyes.
False joy is like when you wake up in the morning, thinking that you have grown taller, only to find out that the quilt is just covered crosswise...
May you become such a woman: not showing off, not quarreling, be a learned woman; not empty, not impetuous, be a rich woman; even if life is exhausted, still grow old with elegance.