If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please read every word carefully! Maybe when you call him, his phone is always off. Please don't be angry because he is at work in a high-risk environment. Perhaps some places have no electricity, or even lose mobile signals... Maybe when you call his office, he is often not there. Please don't worry because he is recording data or doing routine inspections. A little negligence may cause serious accidents... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please don't complain because he is not always by your side. His working environment is the wild. They use the sky as a quilt and the ground as a bed. He wants to go back, but he always tells himself helplessly that he is a strong soldier, guarding the frontier like an idol, gazing at his wife from afar... Perhaps after he comes home, he still can't go shopping with you or watch movies together. In fact, he does know how to enjoy life! He still has a lot of work to finish. He is thinking about how they can stay together without being apart for such a long time, and he is making efforts that you don't know about... On the first day he comes home, he might sleep for 24 hours. When he is tired, please don't argue with him because every day, every 24 hours at his workplace, his nerves are tightly strung, ready to face whatever happens... When he is upset, please don't quarrel with him. He pays attention to every detail in his work and tries to make it perfect. Even so, he may still be criticized and dissatisfied by his leader. The only person who can make him relax and feel comfortable is you... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, maybe when you are sick, he can't take care of you all the time. Please don't blame him. Besides his parents, he is the one who cares about you the most. But he works far away, and he has too many helplessnesses. He may not be able to sleep at night, thinking about what you will do without him by your side. Please believe that as long as he has time, he will definitely take care of you and won't let you suffer any委屈... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, when he can't accompany you during holidays, please give him some understanding. He must always be on his post. His life has no Saturdays or Sundays. Even during rare occasions like Mid-Autumn Festival, National Day, or New Year's Eve, he also needs to see if he can rest! In fact, doesn't he want to spend those beautiful times with you?... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, when he can't spend anniversaries with you, please understand his reasons. His work often does not allow him to take vacations on time. He also follows arrangements because he once secretly vowed to work hard and dedicate himself to the oil industry, making future anniversaries more beautiful... When you rest, he works; when you work, he rests. Please don't complain. In fact, the person he thinks about the most is you. Once he has time, even if it means sacrificing his hard-earned rest time, he will come to see you, even when you're busy. To avoid disturbing you, he secretly looks at you from a corner where you can't see him. Then he sends a message or makes a call, telling you that he loves you, that you look beautiful today, saying a few sweet words like "you've lost weight, dear, make sure to eat well, I can't take care of you, please forgive me"... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please try to learn to understand, sympathize, and tolerate... After all, he is often misunderstood by colleagues and not understood by leaders, but for the sake of life, he resolutely moves forward. Please give him enough tolerance. He needs to vent to balance himself. He cannot always bear委屈overload. You are his only outlet for anger without reservation because he knows you are his sweetheart, his wife, his spiritual pillar. A sentence from you, "Husband, don't worry, I'm here!" gives him immense comfort and motivation... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please don't disdain his rough hands and dark skin. His job is to be with the dark oil all day! In fact, his health is not very good. The pressure and hardships of work make youth slip away faster! Don't assume he takes good care of himself. In fact, the tense work makes him endure both psychological and physical pressures. Long hours of work, anxiety, and tension make him get sick more easily and age faster than others. Looking at such a him, don't you feel heartache... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, he must live in guilt every day because he has lost a lot of happy times and the romantic things he promised over the phone! He wants to hold your hand, hug you, taste the food you cook, take you to buy clothes you like, accompany the elderly with you, take the child to see the flowers in the park, think about how you spend your lonely days, regret not being able to hand you a tissue when you cry, wish he could laugh with you when you are happy, dream about finishing work at six o'clock and going home together, wonder when they can watch the movie they both want to see, hope to look into your eyes and say, "Wife, I love you!" He dreams... About life... He is constantly thinking about you... Regretfully, as a petroleum worker, he has only one thought: work hard! Make life better, reduce separation time, increase happiness time! If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please learn to cherish, understand, and tolerate... If your boyfriend is a petroleum worker, please be proud of him and cheer him on... If a petroleum worker doesn't have a girlfriend, please fall in love with him quickly. Petroleum workers don't have much time for dating, and because love comes, he understands love more than anyone else in the world... To the big brothers, little brothers, sisters-in-law, and younger sisters-in-law on the oil frontlines, what is happiness? You all find it hard... Let us cherish our happy love lives! Petroleum workers haven't lost anything, not even happiness. Our love hearts are bigger than the sky, bigger than the sea, bigger than everyone else's romance. We also hope that when you see this article, you temporarily forget the cruelty of reality and comfort your lonely hearts right now. Pick up the phone, call that person, and say: "It's snowing, it's cold, wear more clothes, take care of yourself, I miss you..." (Some texts and pictures are excerpted from the QQ album of employees from Factory 5, thanks!)