In the past few days, I often came home late. When I was still driving at 10 o'clock, I would hear some emotional talk shows on the radio. Every day, there were men and women in the mortal world talking about their private feelings, unable to stop even if they wanted to. Moreover, most of these were extremely foolish emotional problems. The more I listened, the more I felt: boring and tiring! It turns out that in this world, there are quite a few people who have difficulty understanding emotional attachment. In 2009, while wandering in Jiangnan, I visited the Slender West Lake in Yangzhou, but in the end, those who achieved ultimate karmic fulfillment were few and far between. All regrettable due to "self-attachment" and "lack of enlightenment." Come on, dear girl friends reading this blog, you might as well do a quick self-check. Do you have any of the following symptoms:
1. You make or send more than five phone calls or text messages to your partner on average per day.
2. During each date, you talk twice as much as he does, and when it's time to part ways, you keep finding excuses to prolong the time because you feel "reluctant to let go."
3. The gifts you give him are more than twice as many as what he gives you.
4. More than 80% of the topics you discuss with your close friends are related to him.
5. If you don't hear from him for a day, you can't sleep well, and your mind is filled with various negative speculations.
6. Ninety percent of your smiles and tears are related to him.
If unfortunately, you meet more than half of the above criteria, I must congratulate you, your love may not end well! Clearly, you've lost yourself, haven't you? When a person loves to the point of losing oneself, loves to the extent of wanting to depend entirely on the other, they become increasingly humble. The balance of one's life is thus disrupted, leading to the inability to maintain the balance of the relationship long-term... ...I am glad that the phrase "a woman becomes stupid once she falls in love" will never be verified in me, thanks to breast enhancement product rankings soft articles! Life has truly trained us after all! Haha!
This is an era of entertainment filled with irresponsible clichés. From TV and magazines, we hear phrases like "being devoted to love," "a sincere heart crying for you until dawn," "for you, I have no regrets, for you, the whole world doesn't matter, I could even give up my life," etc. Everywhere is flooded with too many cheap tears and unrealistic dramatic feelings. Thus, even "love," the most beautiful thing in the world, has become so desperate, full of empty groans, and its face distorted and detestable.
It's really unnecessary, just common words from ordinary people.
The intensity of love is not proportional to how many times you've cried, argued, or thrown things - in fact, I believe it's absolutely inversely proportional!
True love brings deep satisfaction, security, happiness, and wisdom. Great love is not petty love; it's not a circus act, nor a battlefield.
Rather, relax a bit, give some space, preserve more dignity, and enjoy great love. As netizens say, family members undergoing surgery are asked by doctors to buy gauze priced at 480 yuan.