1. Being humiliated by others and turning one's back is not as good as turning over, being angry is not as good as striving.
2. Face opposing opinions, listen to them like a radar watch, and think about them.
3. Making mistakes when young and impetuous is not strange, knowing the mistake and being able to correct it makes a true hero.
4. Troublesome matters should not be spoken of casually.
5. Lies cannot be put on a high shelf, nor can they be entangled with further.
6. Do not pay too much attention to other people's expressions, do what you should do.
7. When sitting on a cold bench, one must be able to pick it up and let it go.
8. A gentleman loves wealth but takes it in a righteous way.
9. Entering an industry, men fear entering the wrong industry, women fear marrying the wrong man.
10. Friends can be "many" but must not be "excessive."
11. When handling affairs, acquaintances and friends are often quick helpers.
12. When job hunting and rejected, start from the bottom and use your talents to prove yourself.
13. When asking for a raise, ask yourself if you have enough confidence.
14. Whether to "jump" jobs or not, think three times before acting.
15. Discovering someone else's secrets, treat their private matters as fleeting clouds.
16. Winning an argument by verbal sparring does not count as winning.
17. In small conflicts, yield three steps calmly, take a step back and the sky will be vast.
18. Being misunderstood by others but remaining at peace within oneself, the world becomes wider.
19. Refusing others, dare to say "no," when it's time to speak up, do so.
20. Beware of bad people, maintain a proper distance.
21. Do not let fame and profit blind your vision.
22. Reflecting on the past, "a good horse eats grass again," being flexible makes a great man.
23. Mediating disputes, learn to smooth things over, maintaining peace wins hearts.
24. Talking and gaining success, control your own mouth.
25. Criticizing others, be tactful, subtle, and clever.
26. Revealing others' shortcomings, don't hit where it hurts most.
27. "Changing face" is both a skill and a necessity.
28. In business competition, do not monopolize all profits, give others a share.
29. Facing those you dislike, learn to coexist with them.
30. Those who complain loudly are most likely to suffer losses.
31. Endless retaliation leads nowhere, not retaliating also makes a gentleman.
32. When others make mistakes, forgive them as you would want to be forgiven.
33. Losing out sometimes means gaining more.
34. Gaining courtesy, return kindness for grievances is the wisest emotional investment.
35. Under someone's roof, know when to lower your head.
36. At life's crossroads, walk my path without regrets.
37. Seek help wisely using others' strength, ask for help when necessary.
38. Treat mockery as an opportunity to recognize faults and correct defects.
39. In disappointment, watch the flowers bloom and fade before your eyes, see the clouds roll by in the sky.
40. Facing others' misfortunes, never boast of your own successes.
41. Overcoming setbacks, only through ups and downs in life can great achievements be made.
42. When despised by others, prove yourself through actions, not words.
43. Encountering injustice, adapt to what must be adapted, change what can be changed.
44. Unrecognized talent, strive to hone yourself, gold will always shine.
45. Extramarital affairs, unbearable burdens in life, unbearable pain in marriage.
46. Parting well means parting well.
47. Pre-marriage property notarization, what does love measure by?
48. Trial marriage, proceed cautiously.
49. Spousal quarrels hurt the spirit, unnecessary to argue over who wins or loses.
50. Jealousy is the strongest poison that destroys love and happiness.