"I already have a house and a car, but I value more the family background of my other half, as well as her personal qualities and abilities," Xiaolin, born in 1989, told the author. Xiaolin graduated last year from a university in Hangzhou with a degree in business management. He plans to train for a few years in the company founded by his father before inheriting the family business. He believes that the environment of both families has tangible and intangible influences on the marriage of two people, which is one of the key points to examine. The woman's education, quality, and other abilities determine whether she can communicate spiritually with him. "My future wife may also need to help me manage the family business, so it would be best if she had a similar family background and a university degree like me, so we could get along better. I will bring up these issues during blind dates," he said.
Experts warn: rushing into marriage to escape employment is too risky. Nowadays, when it comes to the young 'post-85s', society shows more tolerance towards those who are eager to get married, especially female college students eager to find a husband, instead of blindly criticizing them with derogatory terms like 'gold digger'. Dr. Yu Beihong, from the Department of Sociology at Fuzhou University, analyzed that as college students, their requirements for the spiritual level are definitely not low. However, they want to escape the pressure of social reality by marrying men who already have a certain material foundation, making it difficult for them to find partners among their peers, thus turning to matchmaking agencies to seek 'successful individuals'.
However, this approach leaves potential problems in marriage. Seeking soulmates with common aspirations is everyone's desire, but different methods may lead to misdirection.