You are my sister.

by wenyyslove on 2011-09-17 21:03:20

Su Chun:

Song Si Ming:

That girl in her flowering season has followed me all the way, from when she was in full bloom to now when she is haggard. Although she has a fiery temper, it's not her fault; it's because of the circumstances. A woman, if she has a car when she goes out and servants when she comes home, it's hard for her to maintain an unpleasant face. In such a city of fleeting charm and seduction, there is a woman willing to follow a penniless man like me, I should be grateful, tolerant, and love her. Make her happy.

Hai Ping:

The society nowadays is too realistic and cruel. No one considers family ties important anymore. But I tell you, any problem that money can solve is not a big problem.

My ideals have been pushed far away by this rushing crowd. Yes, my former persistence, inner principles, youthful aspirations, have all been eroded by the child, by the family, by work, by housing, by real life...

These numbers force me not to slack off even for a day, there's no time to carefully ponder the next ten years.

What future do I have? My future is right here and now. The other day, I went shopping with mom. Actually, we didn't need to walk, but the crowd pushed us forward. I couldn't stop, I couldn't pause, and at that moment, I laughed and said: "This is our life, no time to think, no decisiveness, just being blindly pushed forward by others. Where did the ideals of my youth go?"

Every night, I sit by the window, looking at the lights outside, and I think: This city is so magical, there are as many lives as there are people. I don't know about others' lives, but what about mine? Every time I open my eyes, a string of numbers pop into my mind: 6000 yuan for the mortgage, 2500 for food and clothing, 1500 for Xu Xu's kindergarten, 600 for social obligations, 580 for transportation, 3-400 for property management, 250 for mobile phone bills, and 200 for gas and electricity. That means, from my first breath of consciousness, I need to earn at least 400 yuan every day... This is the cost for me to live in this city.

Buying a house was supposed to be your and my responsibility, but look around you, isn't everyone embarrassing themselves for the sake of buying a house?

It was 40,000 yuan from my mom, now it's 60,000 from our mom! Luckily, the money was returned, otherwise, you'd probably be calling her "that bitch!"

In fact, many times I do have principles. I don't want to take shortcuts, I certainly don't want to betray two people at once. But every time I see those less capable than me get tickets before me by cutting in line, or those less capable than me save decades of struggle by abandoning their principles, I really feel不服 (unconvinced/resentful). Sometimes I even doubt, is this steadfastness of mine right or wrong?

In one's lifetime, there are many troubles that cannot be resolved, such as birth, aging, sickness, and death, such as winning people's hearts, such as scheming against each other, such as falling out of love. All of these are much more serious than houses or money. A person can bear debts of money, but cannot bear debts of feelings. With debts of money, you have the hope of paying them back, but with debts of feelings, you may feel guilty until death.

At any time, profits cannot be maximized. When you pursue the highest profit, you actually block your own path. I think, obtaining reasonable profits is enough!

I even blame this society, why is it so unfair? Why doesn't everyone follow the rules? Why must we, these hardworking snails, suffer?

You should never believe in love again, accident compensation agreements in restaurants. Love is just a trick men use to deceive women. Giving your heart to someone, saying they will always have you, these are just illusions of destitute paupers. He has nothing, so he talks nonsense. If a man truly loves a woman, he should first lay down a stack of cash, then offer her a house. Even if things don't work out in the future, at least you'll have somewhere to land.

Hai Zao:

Why must our lives and dreams be tied to a house? All our efforts, all our expectations are merely for a place to live. Isn't such a life too tragic?

A thirty-year loan, the interest adds up to another house.

You are my sister, don't even talk about borrowing 20,000 yuan, even if you took my life, I wouldn't have a word to say.