In life, it is not uncommon for a man who has achieved success in his career and is upright and sincere to experience ups and downs in romance and hardships in love. On the contrary, some men who have no real achievements in their careers and are frivolous and dissolute "bad boys" often find themselves doing well in matters of the heart, swapping beautiful girlfriends one after another. Simply explaining this phenomenon with the phrase "women don't love good men" seems somewhat pale and powerless. Love, in reality, does require skills. Those who are as smooth in the dating scene as fish in water instinctively master many rules of courtship, much like savvy marketing salespeople who dominate the market and achieve success wherever they go.
In marketing, brand operations are very important. Extensive publicity and advertising campaigns can deify products of average quality, making them seem extraordinary, thereby greatly stimulating consumers' purchasing desires. Similarly in love, when both parties reach a certain level of understanding, they may face an unpredictable "bottleneck period." Girls may become suspicious and indecisive. The "smart" boy will seize the opportunity to talk about ideals and life, broadly narrating his life pursuits, often exaggerating or boasting, even if the current situation is less than ideal and the future uncertain. He will try hard to portray himself as a "potential stock" with great prospects. After all, girls just want to hear these things, whether they are true or not, and their mental scales can easily tip, thus giving the boy favor.
Uncovering the "marketing-style pursuit method" of the "bad boys" in the dating world is not to endorse them but to inform some overly honest boys that perhaps you disdain these "tricks," but love isn't as sacred as you imagine. If your intentions are truly sincere, complementing them with some love skills or "tricks" would surely be more effective and romantic. At the same time, it serves as a warning to girls who are easily taken in: use discernment, listen to their words but observe their actions. Character is more important than sweet talk and exaggerated flattery.
When a product is selling well in the market, it doesn't necessarily mean ultimate success. Advanced marketing theory guides us to organize strategic retreats in a timely manner, play the product combination card, transfer risks, and avoid total losses in case of unexpected events. The "bad boys" who win big are usually not as devoted or deeply emotional as they boast. Once they get what they want, they might become bored, think of ways to escape, or turn to new targets that excite them. But appropriately handling aftermath is also one of their strengths. The highest realm is when they've been emotionally transferred for quite some time, yet because everything was handled skillfully, the ex-girlfriend remains unaware or, even if aware, still foolishly waits for them to repent.
An excellent salesperson, once a target is determined, will persistently engage in effective communication with them, subtly letting the other party first accept their character before accepting the marketed product. Skilled lovers do the same. They immediately launch strong romantic advances towards the pursued individual. On one hand, their skin must be thick enough; on the other hand, they cleverly use humor to gain goodwill, getting closer through playful jokes, avoiding embarrassing or awkward situations. Don't underestimate this set of tactics; its "destructive power" on women is significant. Often starting from initial self-restraint to slight satisfaction, gradually softening attitudes, from familiarity to recognition until becoming intimate. Having opportunities for exchange promotes the growth of close relationships. The perseverance and cheerful demeanor of bad boys are precisely what some good boys lack.
After laying so many foundations, the sales opportunity is now ripe, finally reaching the time of great harvest. Marketing theory most focuses on improving execution, striving to achieve sales targets in one fell swoop. Similarly, at this point, love has already entered the passionate stage. Thoughtful boys are skilled at seizing opportunities, creating romantic tricks such as candlelight dinners, public flower offerings, kneeling proposals, and gift-giving, finding the right moment to hold hands and clearly sending out strong signals of relationship determination and ownership, successfully capturing the girl's heart. Some even cross ethical boundaries, cooking rice before the grain is ready, leaving no room for the girl to resist.
Marketing theory suggests that the first step in marketing is comprehensive and meticulous market research to lock down sales targets and provide products that meet customer needs. Boys who are good at pursuing girls never fight unwinnable battles. Though seemingly rough around the edges, they are particularly calculating and experienced in this area. They carefully observe and understand the specific background information, personality, and preferences of the person they intend to pursue, thus targeting their efforts effectively. As the saying goes, "know yourself and know your enemy, and you will win a hundred battles without disaster." This is highly sophisticated; though it takes time, it is indeed worth the effort.