2. You should let others save face at any time. Do not make anyone feel embarrassed, do not belittle others, and do not exaggerate their mistakes.
3. Speak well of others behind their backs. If you can't find anything good to say, then you should remain silent.
19. Keep smiling. No one needs a smile more than those who smile at the wrong person.
15. You don't have to be right all the time. You may be smarter than others, but you shouldn’t tell them that. You should admit perhaps you were wrong - this way you can avoid all arguments.
8. When you make a mistake, apologize promptly; when you are about to be criticized, it's best to confess first.
11. You should talk as little as possible. Give others the opportunity to speak while you willingly become a good listener.
24. When you think of the other person, give them your best wishes.
7. Allow others to feel good about themselves occasionally. Don't flatter, but admit that you also have faults. Be humble, cautious, and guard against arrogance. If you want to make enemies, criticize others everywhere. If you want to gain friends, forgive when you can.
10. When others are angry, show understanding. Their anger is often just to get your attention. Give them enough sympathy and attention - they need it.
1. Encourage others as much as possible. Praise their achievements - even small successes. Praise is like sunlight, without it we lack the nutrients to grow. Your praise will never be excessive.
17. In times of conflict, remain calm. First listen to the other person's opinion, try to find common ground between both sides, criticize yourself with a critical eye, assure the other party that you will consider their opinion, and thank them for the enlightenment they've given you.
23. Forgive others as soon as possible, and do not hold grudges.
22. Try to make the person you're speaking to, including on the phone, feel good - first about themselves, then about your actions, and finally about you.
20. Always address the other person by their full name. This shows your respect for them. Everyone likes to hear their own name, which makes them happier than hearing any substitute for it. Of course, you must make an effort to remember their names.
18. Show genuine interest in others. Make this your motto: be interested in others, not in showing how interesting you are. Show that you are thinking of ways to help them.
13. Do not interrupt others, even when they are wrong. When they still have something on their mind, they won't patiently listen to you.
9. Offer more suggestions rather than issuing commands. This way, you can promote cooperative relationships and avoid conflicts.
14. Try to analyze situations from the other person's perspective. As the Indians say, "First walk a mile in someone else's shoes." Don't forget to ask yourself: Why did he do this? Understanding everything means forgiving everything.
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6. Criticize others as little as possible, and if necessary, use indirect methods. Always focus on the issue, not the person. Express to the other party that you sincerely like them and are willing to help them. Never criticize others in writing.
Good interpersonal relationships and having good rapport are crucial for survival and even success in today's economic and social life. So how do you get along with people and have good rapport? Here's how:
As the saying goes, "What you sow, so shall you reap." Applying this simple philosophy to social interactions, you could say that by respecting others everywhere, you receive the reward of being respected everywhere in return. Respecting others is actually respecting yourself.
There is such an interesting story: A child didn't understand the need to take the initiative to greet adults or to be friendly and united with peers - in short, lacked courtesy awareness. The wise mother corrected this mistake by taking him to a valley and shouting to the surrounding mountains, "Hello, hello." The valley echoed, "Hello, hello." Then the mother led the child to shout, "I love you, I love you." Of course, the valley shouted back, "I love you, I love you." Surprisingly, the child asked his mother why, and she told him, "To the sky...
4. Carefully observe others, and you will discover the good things they do. When you express approval, explain thoroughly so that your praise doesn't seem like flattery.
12. Let others believe that the idea came from them. Good ideas don't depend on who owns them, and everyone prefers to believe they are acting according to their own will. The ocean is the king of streams because it can accept all rivers.
5. Frequently quote others' noble thoughts and motives. Everyone wants to be considered generous and selfless by others. If you want others to improve, then act as if they already possess these excellent qualities. That way, they will do everything possible not to disappoint anyone.
These principles come from the integration of various sources.