For everyday bills, I believe you've seen quite a few. But have you ever seen an emotional bill? Perhaps you would ask, when two people are together, would they still care about the emotional bill between them? Yes, take a look at this woman's bill, and you will understand what I mean... Here, I want to say that whether you are a wife or a husband, I hope you can take a careful look at this "shocking emotional bill for men."
14 years ago, on a stormy night, I left everyone behind and followed the man I deeply loved to Shenzhen to become a factory worker.
After your failure in the college entrance exam, besides your sick mother, frail father, and the half-ruined house, there was only me left.
I remember that the money for our trip to Shenzhen for work came from my salary as a part-time teacher. All the hardships I endured were for the sake of being with you forever.
Perhaps, my vision wasn't wrong; you are indeed great.
Today, 10 years later, when all my family members sighed in relief and forgave me for not marrying the wrong person, now that we have a car and a villa, you bluntly told me that you found a "soulmate." If I agree to dissolve our marriage, you would give me the property and children; otherwise, you will betray me, and I should have no complaints.
I smiled and said I would give you an answer in three days.
Three days later, I presented you with a list of our marriage:
1. In ten years of marriage, you wore out 3 sets of pajamas, 4 pairs of slippers, and broke 21 pairs of leather shoes. The most broken leather shoes indicate that you spent more time earning money outside, which is why a "soulmate" looked up to the successful you.
2. In ten years of marriage, I wore out 10 sets of pajamas, 11 pairs of slippers, and broke 16 pairs of leather shoes. My worn-out slippers and leather shoes are more because I spent more time taking care of the family and children, and also fought alongside you outside. Therefore, I became a "yellow-faced old woman" without any freshness.
3. In ten years of marriage, you, the evergreen tree, appreciated X times. After divorce, countless beauties from Shenzhen to Hangzhou are waiting for you, a "successful person, mature and tasteful," to choose from.
4. In ten years of marriage, my youth depreciated 10,000 times. To be honest, if we divorce, my chance of remarriage is 1%. An aging me doesn't fancy men around my age, and unless they're too bad, regular men wouldn't want to marry a middle-aged woman with children.
5. In ten years of marriage, the busy you only cooked for me 26 times.
6. In ten years of marriage, the busy me cooked meals for you every day of the year, 365 days.
7. In ten years of marriage, it took me 10 months to bear a child, and I raised, educated, and taught him for 10 years.
8. In ten years of marriage, it took you 10 minutes to conceive a child, and you gave him a surname.
9. In ten years of marriage, I got along well with your parents, never raising my voice once.
10. In ten years of marriage, you refused to forgive my parents who love their daughter dearly, never calling them "Mom" or "Dad." When we were poor, you insisted they wouldn't respond to you, so you refused to call them. Now that we're wealthy, you refuse to call them because you're no longer afraid of them. Would you let your own daughter choose poverty if she could choose otherwise? Hoping for her prosperity is human nature!
Dear, if you read the above summary of our marriage and can look me in the eyes and say divorce, I will fulfill your wish. You can bring it up anytime, and I will agree to divorce you.
But, I waited a whole year, and you didn't bring up divorce again.
Now you come home early, cook frequently, and clean the floor. Are you trying to make up for your mistakes?