If both go to bed, why do women claim to be at a disadvantage?

by sdch3342 on 2009-12-04 23:37:56

Regardless of whether it's in real life or on the internet, as people become more open-minded about sex, premarital cohabitation seems to be socially accepted, and post-marital sexual activity is no longer a hidden matter. With the rise of this wave of sexual concepts, many young girls no longer consider post-marital sexual behavior as a significant issue. However, if you pay attention, you may notice that some girls, especially on famous communities like http://www.52luoliao.com (http://www.crjqsplts.info), end up in bed with others and later regret it, claiming they've been deceived.

The world is free, and if you willingly go to bed with someone, there's an element of consent. Even if someone tricks you into going to bed, at the moment you do so, your mind is likely influenced by physical desires. This is common knowledge; physiological urges are among the most basic human drives. When these urges lead you to bed, you either use strong willpower to control yourself, leave the man's embrace, and run away, thus avoiding regret. If you lack the ability to control your impulses and allow yourself to be led by physiological desires, then you must take responsibility for what happens next and not simply blame the man.

Men and women are highly intelligent beings capable of walking upright on Earth. Going to bed is a mutual act; once it happens, neither party should claim loss. Both should be responsible for their own actions.

Furthermore, after two people have been intimate, if they part ways due to certain issues, the woman often claims she has been wronged and regrets her decision, blaming the man. I ask, why do you feel love is necessary just because you had sex? It was your choice; if it wasn't consensual, it would be rape, which can be legally addressed. If it wasn't forced, don't easily blame the man. Instead of criticizing others, reflect on yourself.

After all is said and done, regret serves no purpose. If both parties engage in the act, how can one say who gains or loses? Acknowledging any gain or loss implies viewing oneself as subordinate. The experience, process, and enjoyment are mutual. Why do women often express regret afterward? There's nothing inherently wrong with engaging in sexual activity; both parties enjoy it. Mutual respect and understanding are essential, and no one should view themselves solely as a means of consumption for the other.

If we were to define the act of going to bed as a form of interactive consumption, then when he consumes you, you also consume him. It's a mutual process, so where does the concept of loss come from? Deep-seated thought patterns have long restricted women. Sex is a natural physiological need for both men and women, and both parties enjoy the experience. Why should only men bear the consequences?

Some individuals might think they can secure love through physical intimacy, but this logic doesn't hold. In a world full of beautiful women, if someone needs emotional attachment, there are plenty of options. If you choose intimacy without love, don't measure it against the standards of love afterward.

Men might try to deceive you into going to bed, but if you knowingly go along with it, you cannot later claim you've been wronged. Flowers by the roadside are there for picking or not, depending on your choice.

In this world, intelligence determines everything. Without self-respect, being deceived is deserved. No one forces another to go to bed. Everyone must take responsibility for their actions, and there's no need for regret.

Either open your eyes or loosen your belt. In this world, aside from yourself, no one else is obligated to take responsibility for you.

Finally, I want to say: Women, if you cannot align your actions with your thoughts after going to bed, then change your mindset. The act of going to bed is equal for both men and women. Don’t claim loss afterward.