A. Convenient for going abroad: We have always had a dream of going beyond our national borders, to experience different natural scenery and feel the local customs of foreign countries. But either the procedures were too complicated or the costs too high. Now it's good, just say visiting relatives with the family, and all problems are solved.
B. Bring pride to the Chinese people: Why should foreign men be picky about our compatriot sisters (the fact that their selection results are puzzling and incomprehensible is another matter). We also need to make a choice; we can't drag every foreign girl we see back to our home. Not for any other reason, but just to bring pride. Of course, after things are settled, we need to put aside our previous competitive emotions and love as we should.
C. Clear conflicts between couples: After marriage, we can completely maintain normal or subtle relations with our girlfriends before marriage. She will not restrict you, and she can get along well with that woman. But the premise is that we must withstand her style of hugging and kissing other men when they meet. Before we have much confidence in our immunity and resistance in this aspect, we'd better live decently and tell her: "I only love you."
D. No fear of unemployment: After a period of life, we find that our foreign language level has improved rapidly. So we no longer worry about unemployment, and we don't even consider salaries below 5000 yuan per month. In an increasingly demanding labor market regarding foreign language proficiency, our oral skills are definitely a guarantee for high salaries.
E. Parents are happy: At first, our parents may not adapt, gradually, they start to feel that having a foreign daughter-in-law around is lively. They won't watch TV dramas anymore. After a year, let them have a grandson to play with.
F. Benefits of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship: Different cultural backgrounds and living habits, even if they don't call our parents 'Mom' and 'Dad' but call them by their names directly, our parents can't find anything to criticize. As for occasional dissatisfaction, they won't hear it, thinking it might be a compliment on their Chinese cooking or a goodnight wish. Similarly, we don't need to be polite to her parents. Just say "Hi, Jack, Hi, Mary."
G. Next generation doesn't worry about learning foreign languages: Foreign language teachers are nothing special, because our son's mother's native language is this one. The foreign language teacher needs to be careful during class and may end up seeking advice from our son afterward.
H. Amicable separation: Foreigners are more open-minded than us Chinese. If it comes to that, they won't cry or make a fuss. It's possible that before we adjust to the change, they've already set up a new home.