If it's too close, things will get serious.

Strangers who automatically try to get close to you on the road, don't foolishly give them your phone number, or you'll be harassed to death by text messages and calls.

Don't boast about how much you can drink in social settings, don't act overly manly by drinking and playing finger-guessing games with others; those who truly care about you won't let you get drunk.

Stop dreaming of Cinderella and Prince Charming, your feet aren't that small to fit into glass slippers.

If you have money to buy your boyfriend an imported razor, it would be better to buy your dad a pair of socks; he's wearing ones patched several times by your mom, did you notice?

Have a stable job, earn more money, women must be financially independent to have an independent personality, to avoid becoming Nora later on.

Middle-aged men, especially big spenders, who invite you for dinner, singing, and bar hopping, decline their invitations, you can't outwit them.

If a man who once betrayed you wants to come back, say no to him.

If a man you once betrayed asks you to come back, say no to him as well.

Learn some clothing coordination, stop dressing in clashing colors like red and purple before heading out.

For the vows made by immature boys when you were young, just laugh it off, they said those words without thinking.

Stick to principles on major issues, but learn to be flexible on minor matters.

There's no need to argue until your face turns red with your boyfriend; if you're right, he might think you're too competitive and unreasonable. If you're wrong, he might think you're being irrational and relentless.

If you have money to buy a high-end necklace, it will look classier than wearing fake jade.

Stop acting like a tyrannical girlfriend beating up your man, if you break him, there won't be anyone to carry your bags of rice and flour.

Don't fall in love with married men, when his wife, children, and elderly parents all mobilize, you'll end up very badly hurt.

Get a health check-up every year, especially for liver, kidney, and breast health.

Occasionally cook with your mom, it's more enjoyable than hanging out with friends eating and drinking aimlessly.

Be sincere with the boyfriend you truly intend to marry.

Don't play around with other people's feelings, your opponent might be more experienced than you.

Stop being a moonlight clan, you should start saving dowry money.

Always remember, endless online gaming with boys only belongs to university days.

Unless necessary, there's no need to frequently switch to the latest model of mobile phones, otherwise others might think you're a phone salesperson.

Know your parents' health conditions.

By this time, you should at least have a driver's license, whether or not you own a car.

At least have one ambiguous male friend, who can be your energy treasure box or energy trash can.

Don't get too close to your girlfriend's boyfriend, you'll get scolded behind your back.

Don't expect your boyfriend to be good at earning money, washing clothes, and doing housework, he doesn't have Superman's underwear to wear outside.

Don't repeatedly emphasize that after marriage, your boyfriend must be filial to your parents, or even claim you'll bring them to live together, making your husband get along with his in-laws. Relationships are mutual, if he brings his parents over, your home will become incredibly lively beyond imagination.

Don't talk about marriage too early in a relationship, nor refuse your boyfriend's proposal twice in a row.

Don't dream that in this life you must find someone like Tony Leung or Terry Gou, because you're not Carina Lau.

Don't date boys three years younger than you, because you're not Faye Wong.

Buy insurance, if your company offers social security, then it's unnecessary.

Buy your mom something practical, she'll feel hundreds of times better than receiving flowers.

Instead of going to SPA alone, take your mom to bathe and scrub her back.

Follow the principle of "letting things happen naturally," but don't abandon efforts.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't strive to be a domineering career woman, you'll become increasingly lonely.

If you have extra funds, consider buying a house, the wedding house doesn't necessarily have to be fully borne by your boyfriend.

Don't view men as too complicated, people often complicate each other unnecessarily, of course, don't treat them as idiots either.

Don't cling to your boyfriend all the time, give him some space, the relationship will grow deeper.

Having many boyfriends isn't something to be proud of, it will only make you seem unreliable.

Showing love to your boyfriend isn't something natural, especially in front of many people, ordering him around will embarrass him and make you seem uncouth.

By this time, if you're still idle, no one will compliment you as a good girl anymore.

Don't think smoking makes you charming, it's bad for your skin and looks sleazy.

If you can still read, read books often to improve your self-cultivation.

Don't look down on your friends who work hard but earn little, their bowl of noodles is the fruit of their own labor.

Don't brag or act superior in front of friends (this is very annoying).

Pay attention to national events, don't say the Russian president is still Putin, politics isn't just a man's affair.

Care about your boyfriend regularly, but caring doesn't mean nagging and supervision.

When going out to eat with your boyfriend, don't refuse to pay just because you're a girl, thinking it's his duty to treat you. Why should he? You didn't eat any less.

Learn makeup, plain-faced beauty depends on youth, you'll soon lose this advantage.

If you don't have Lin Daiyu's talent, appearance, and background, don't cry easily. Even if you can recite the "Flower Burial Ode," I doubt you want to follow Lin Daiyu's footsteps of spitting blood, and crucially, Baoyu ended up marrying someone else.

Maintain at least one healthy hobby, such as swimming, jogging, table tennis, etc., remember window shopping doesn't count.

Don't envy those with more good sisters than you, their troubles increase proportionally with the number.

Never think another's husband is better than yours, because they don't love you.

Take care of your hair, having a head of messy grass, even colorful makeup won't help.

Praise your boyfriend more, your one word might be his motivation, bringing you economic benefits.

The boyfriend you wish to develop further should be introduced to your parents, elders' eyes are sometimes indeed sharper than yours.

Stop imitating men cursing, you're not a gangster girl, you'll become an old lady.

Be proud of being frugal, be ashamed of eating snacks randomly.

You don't need to change clothes daily, looking overly flamboyant can make people dizzy.

Keep a certain distance from your boyfriend's male friends, if you're too distant, he'll say you're cold towards his friends, if you're too close, bigger problems may arise.

No event, no man, is worth losing sleep over, getting drunk on the street, or buying sleeping pills.

Women, only look fresh for a few years, later it's about experience rather than just looks.

Always maintain a graceful smile.

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