Butterfly Subconscious Monologue on Dieting [No.0] (Supplementary Edition - October 18, 2009)

by ple74y2d84 on 2009-11-20 14:19:42

[No.0] Heartfelt Soliloquy (2009-10-18 Compensation Edition) When happiness comes knocking, how far away is it really?

Leaving the home in Hubei to study and work, the days spent with classmates, friends, and family as the offspring of ordinary retired worker parents were happy ones. I believe that the days ahead with her will be even happier!

PS: Currently standing at 169cm tall without shoes, I've been using computers for over 10 years, listen to Chinese and foreign songs, sing at KTV with classmates, enjoy football and badminton, occasionally play basketball and table tennis (in one competition, I lost to a player with a plain paddle and didn't make it to the finals, hahaha, but privately, I easily beat the champion who wasn't using a plain paddle, haha). In 2009, the first time I saw the sea, I jumped right in. After more than ten years away from swimming pools, I could still swim and float on the water. Yes, seawater is saltier than freshwater. If there's an opportunity, I'd like to travel domestically. At this stage of life, I hope we can share one or more common interests.

In nearly 27 years, my never-T’d bald head caused a small burst of popularity during National Day and Mid-Autumn Festival, haha. It might be because everyone happened to see me during the long holiday, or perhaps it was my unintentional critique of a passing ticket. I hope people around me don't simply interpret it as "starting over," rather, I hope they see someone who continues to strive on the journey of life.

Standing on the city wall, I already feel a bit tired. Though I constantly give myself motivation, my current mental resilience still needs continuous improvement. Bread eaten can be earned again; after considering past events thoroughly, don't waste time thinking about them. Cherish the present moment and do what needs to be done now.

Intro

We who are alone in Beijing sometimes feel the absence of family affection, but family affection will never leave our hearts. The love between lovers enters marriage, part of which turns into family affection, while the part coexisting with family affection should be occasional romance. The most romantic thing should be like the lyrics say, "growing old together." We all chose to leave a city or stay in a city for the sake of family affection.

For us with limited lives, love has become the eternal theme of life. From small things like plants and animals, people around us, lovers, parents, children, to big things like society, all people within the reach of our thoughts, everything that exists on Earth, and the unknown universe, this should be the complete inclusiveness of universal love.

Since love has become the theme of our lives, we need to start from our own current perspective to achieve it. If there is only one way forward, would you risk exploring it or rely on others' experiences, or would you forever stand still?

Happening to be born as a Scorpio with blood type AB and zodiac sign Dog, I don't believe in the I Ching or astrology (though there is one sentence I believe: "hug love tightly, then work hard to earn bread"). I feel that some theories in reality have their merits. Strive to supplement or overcome your own shortcomings. Life is a process of constantly shaping and perfecting oneself in various aspects. I am currently looking for love between lovers, which is a process of continuously perfecting oneself in certain aspects. I hope that both now and in the future, the two of us living together is a process of both continuously perfecting ourselves. It's not asking the other person to be someone who self-perfects, because I think appreciation, acceptance, adjustment, and complementarity are equally important. Men and women are different, not just simple 0.5 + 0.5 = 1.

If continuing love and marriage doesn't go well (or temporarily), choose to leave at the appropriate time, then actively face the future. This is a way of considering others more. This is my understanding of "love cannot be held lightly, nor can it be let go easily."

The opportunity for thought is equal, no one can constrain your thoughts. I hope we can look at things and problems with a developmental perspective.

The "worst" result would be to be a harmless person to society like the one described in "Microdust," learning from the Premier, with clean sleeves. Would that unknown love and marriage be the best result? As long as we live, walk, cry, get tired, then sleep, prepare to live well every moment.

Dreams, I won't quit! Our "Initial Dream" may never be realized in a lifetime. Now, for our respective dreams and interests (individually or together), keep working hard. Ultimately, we will harvest more of our own on the journey of life.

Wishing the future you happiness until old age!

"In the End," "Angel," it is a "Secret. Can't Say"

Life originates from the natural universe, living naturally and ordinarily.

Articles written too much might release all the pigeons, but those left in the cage aren't necessarily the ones who can fly with you. Who is whose who? With fate, if we miss each other, then so be it. I firmly believe that fate will let us meet at the next N intersections! But we might just be ordinary friends. Thank you for writing back or writing letters honestly. If the platform allows me to see them, I will definitely reply within a short period of time. Applying for Advanced User status for three months is a test for myself and also a judgment by others. I've learned to occasionally look back and make myself dizzy, and also learned that some things once passed should not be looked back at. Most importantly, I've learned that when encountering suitable people, determination and perseverance must be maintained. Even if it doesn't work out in the end, I must put in sincere effort. There are more than two months left before the final judgment begins. By then, I should be more mature and proactive in matters of the heart.

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I suggest those who are just beginning to search for love here first look at other people's blogs. I hope those preparing for marriage take advice from the successful experiences of those around them. Both real-life and online learning abilities are important.

Idol Jiabao taught me that "advanced communication and exchange of ideas are very important."

If you pass by and feel it doesn't delay your life, I hope you can finish reading my few blog posts. They contain my thoughts of this month and the places I've been in my previous life.

[No.1] When going to knock on the door of happiness, how far away is it? (Self-introduction at registration, some things hadn't been let go yet)

[No.3] The Her I Anticipate & Me

[No.4] My Views on Love and Marriage

[No.5] Free Love, Necessary Labor (Occasionally wild thoughts, quickly return to reality)

[No.6] Limited Thoughts, Limited Life, Limited Love (Source of personal inner monologue)

[No.2] Failed exams this year, continue working, prepare photos for Jieyuan. The desire for beauty has existed throughout history. People used to use bleaching and spot removal methods to improve dull skin and increase fairness, mainly using strong drug components to bleach dark spots on the face, such as vitamin A acid and hydroquinone (hydroquinone), which have strong whitening effects. However, using bleaching agents can damage the sebum film on the skin surface. If the skin is exposed to ultraviolet radiation, hormonal imbalance, or other factors during this period, its self-protection function will double, causing melanocytes to release more melanin, leading to more serious pigmentation.

With the advancement of modern technology, people began to use gentler and more effective whitening skincare products to achieve fairer skin. By inhibiting the activity of tyrosinase, reducing melanin production, preventing new pigmentation, improving dullness caused by sun exposure or hormonal imbalances, increasing clarity and uniformity of complexion, and gradually fading dark spots.