Look below before marriage, look above after marriage. (Note: This translation preserves the structure of the original Chinese sentence. However, the meaning might be context-dependent and could be interpreted differently based on the situation. If this is for a specific context or audience, please provide more details for a more appropriate translation.) If this phrase has a cultural or humorous context, it may require additional explanation to be fully understood in English. Let me know if you'd like a more detailed explanation or a paraphrase!