1. That suit looks very beautiful on you.
Reason: To protect self-esteem
Men often give answers far from the truth when asked questions by their wives, not wanting to hurt their self-respect and avoid creating unnecessary trouble, which may lead to your annoyance or even direct conflict.
2. It can be fixed.
Reason: To maintain self-image
If there is something wrong with a man's outdoor gear, he will lie and say it's already broken and needs replacement because admitting failure would damage his self-image in front of his wife.
3. It's fine.
Reason: Independent healing
When men encounter issues and say it's fine, they are actually silently dealing with their own pain alone. Men experience sadness and disappointment too. Bleeding is not seen as fortunate for them; they refuse to use bandages due to an extremely high sense of pride. Sometimes, they lie to cover up their true feelings and avoid facing what scares them.
4. If you don't want to, I don't either.
Reason: Avoid being perceived as forcing their spouse
When you say you're not in the mood or your body isn't ready, men have to hide their physical and mental desires, avoiding being seen as someone who only seeks sexual gratification without understanding tenderness. In reality, it's hard for men who need to balance romance and respect, not rushing into things and avoiding failure. Sometimes, they just have to lie.
5. I'll call you back later.
Reason: Self-defense
All men consider themselves to be pretty bad guys. When you catch your husband forgetting to call you back, or due to being late for a date or not finishing what he promised, he might use this excuse. Please forgive him a little. In men's eyes, lying sometimes is a way to avoid trouble.
6. I'm the best.
Reason: To make you feel that marrying me was worth it
When men describe their own bravery and youthful days, or their experiences and achievements at work, they often boast about these things. The reason is simply to remind you that you married the right person. Telling white lies is just to satisfy their vanity.
7. I've had no other affairs, that's all.
Reason: Self-protection
People usually have secrets. When it comes to whether their husband has had any past relationships, especially for those men who don't like to delve deep into such topics, they prefer to gloss over it. They know they must be honest but also cannot let the other party dwell on it indefinitely. Some questions they find hard to answer truthfully, as past relationships are often their most guarded secrets.
8. How could I deceive you?
Reason: To gain long-term trust
Men hope to live happily, and in their minds, the best way to keep someone trusting them is through this statement. Of course, this depends on what kind of person he is and the stability of your marital relationship. Perhaps one needs to look back to childhood for answers, but one thing is certain: men all hope for a Hollywood movie-style perfect ending.
(Responsible Editor: Zhou Jun)