The third scenario: A one-night stand
Finding a lover is the most dangerous and thorough betrayal, involving both physical and mental infidelity. It's easy to find a lover but hard to part ways. How many women today are reluctantly lifelong lovers? When they contribute, they must also demand something in return. Examining the current situation of women as lovers can summarize their eventual outcomes into two categories: lovers turning into enemies or lovers becoming wives. When men cannot satisfy their material desires, the man wants to end it all. The lover refuses, either threatening the man to fulfill his promises.
Stimulus level: Medium
A one-night stand mainly involves physical betrayal with some elements of mental betrayal. The internet is fictional, online romance is fictional, and cybersex is also fictional. Being immersed in fiction, yearning for but unable to attain, is probably not the ideal of most men. Hoping to transition from fiction to reality, to feel genuine intimate contact, leads only to agreeing on "a one-night stand." Or there may be no online romance at all; walking down the street, a glance, an ambiguity, and there’s an urgent intention to copulate. Then follows a night of passion, saying goodbye when dawn breaks.
The fifth scenario: Finding a lover
Risk level: Medium
The first scenario: Masturbation
The fourth scenario: Visiting prostitutes
Applicable to: Freelancers with bulging wallets.
Risk level: Zero
Although a one-night stand is called "romance," it actually has little to do with "romance" or even excludes it. Physical attraction far outweighs the concept of "romance." Yet, since it's not like a meeting between a prostitute and a client, both parties involved may not completely let go. They awkwardly engage in the act, feeling uneasy, without any sense of satisfaction. However, the next time might be more satisfying and harmonious, but don't expect there to be a next time. The danger of a one-night stand lies in hoping for another encounter. If the one-night stand lingers in the mind of the man or woman, trouble begins. Additionally, staying out all night is inconsequential for single men, but for married men, it's a major taboo.
The second scenario: Online romance
Generally speaking, all men have the ambition to betray their wives, either mentally, physically, or both. Ambition doesn’t run wild like a horse, often restrained by reason, morality, or money. Men who betray their wives usually don't genuinely want a divorce; if they do, it's often because they've been caught red-handed by their wives or ensnared by cunning women leaving them no choice. Thus, men who still harbor thoughts of betrayal need to study methods of betrayal and assess the risks involved.
Online romance also falls under mental betrayal. The online world gathers a large number of attractive women of various age groups, as long as you perceive them as such. It is said that women online are fickle. What does "fickle" mean? Mental betrayal. Men planning for mental betrayal and women aspiring to the same, driven by words and inspired by imagination, naturally find the feeling of love. Online romance, discovered by young boys and girls and developed widely by older men and women, caters precisely to the needs of mental betrayal among married individuals. Moreover, wives often care whether their husbands are home at night rather than what they do at home, providing opportunities for men to indulge in online romance. But it’s not without risk. Staying up all night on the computer can easily raise suspicions in a wife. Therefore, avoid staying up late for online romance. If conditions allow, you can use work hours for online romance.
Applicable to: Husbands whose wives are not around and who have cultural sophistication.
Visiting prostitutes constitutes physical betrayal. Married men visiting prostitutes isn't due to any unshakable fascination with prostitutes but rather stems from the numerous advantages prostitutes offer: the ability to choose, exchange, skilled sexual techniques, rhythmic moaning, leaving after completing the transaction, strictly adhering to professional implicit rules, etc. When a man uses prostitutes to achieve physical betrayal against his wife, his heart remains tightly bound to his wife. His primary consideration is not being discovered by his wife, avoiding raising her suspicion, and maintaining his image as a good husband. He will comfort himself by saying he loves his wife or at least cares about her. Having sex with a prostitute is purely for seeking excitement.
Risk level: High
Masturbation constitutes mental betrayal. Although sleeping beside your wife, the images floating before your eyes are those of other women's full breasts. Your distracted mind roams freely among enchanting women. When your wife wishes to be intimate with you, you turn over, pushing her into the distant darkness. Though she may be dissatisfied, she cannot pinpoint your fault, allowing you to continue behaving as a man. You can imagine the school beauty from your student days as your dream lover or consider nearby beautiful women as potential sexual partners. Of course, the school beauty from your student days may have lost her youthful charm just like you, making you lose interest. And around you, there may be only women, not beauties.
Stimulus level: Low
Applicable to: Men who are not socially adept and financially constrained.
You can search for beauties online or watch pornographic videos behind closed doors, letting those sexy, seductive women imprint themselves in your brain, then repeatedly enjoy the pleasure of masturbation.
Stimulus level: High
Applicable to: Men with great imagination and self-control.
Risk level: Low
These are all non-issues.
However, using prostitutes to achieve physical betrayal against one's wife indeed carries significant risks: the risk of being caught by the police, contracting sexually transmitted diseases, or losing property. If things go wrong, one could end up disgraced, penniless, estranged from everyone, and reduced to a beggar-like state.
Scenario One: Masturbation
Applicable to: Men with great imagination and self-discipline.
Stimulus level: Low
Risk level: Zero
Scenario Two: Online Romance
Applicable to: Men who are not socially adept and financially constrained.
Stimulus level: Medium
Risk level: Low
Scenario Three: One-Night Stand
Applicable to: Men whose wives are not around and who have cultural sophistication.
Stimulus level: High
Risk level: Medium
Scenario Four: Visiting Prostitutes
Applicable to: Freelancers with bulging wallets.
Stimulus level: High
Risk level: High
Scenario Five: Finding a Lover
Applicable to: Leaders or company bosses.
Stimulus level: Medium
Risk level: Medium