From Yuzhong District - At 2 o'clock in the morning yesterday, a scream came from No. 64 Yuanjiagang in Yuzhong District. Hu Ying woke up in the middle of the night and found her bed full of hair. When she rushed to the bathroom, she saw that her waist-length hair had been cut to ear length. Peng Hong, the comprehensive management commissioner of Yuanjiagang Community in Yuzhong District, went to Hu Ying's home to learn about the situation. Hu Ying was just crying and couldn't speak. After her emotions stabilized slightly, Hu Ying choked out, "I want to break up with Zhang Yang." What happened?
Hu Ying is 24 years old and works as a salesperson in an electronics company. Her boyfriend, Zhang Yang, was her classmate in university, and they have been together for four years. Currently, both of them have stable jobs, their relationship is developing smoothly, and they plan to get married in May.
"He likes to be jealous, and I thought it was because he loves me, but this time it was really too much," Hu Ying told reporters that on the evening of March 30th, after a department gathering where she and seven colleagues ate dinner at Beicheng Tianjie in Jiangbei, they went to Haoledi to sing karaoke. At 9 p.m., the department manager asked Hu Ying to invite Zhang Yang to join them. Half an hour later, Zhang Yang arrived and quickly got along well with her colleagues. After a few rounds of drinks, everyone was a bit drunk, but Zhang Yang still seemed very energetic. At 11:30 p.m., when they were having fun, Zhang Yang suddenly insisted on leaving, claiming that he had something important to do the next day. "It was hard to lose my temper in front of the boss, so I had to go along with him and leave early," Hu Ying said.
After sending Hu Ying home, Zhang Yang went to sleep because he was too tired. However, Hu Ying woke up in the middle of the night and found that her long hair was gone. Hu Ying said that there was no way she would cut her own hair, so it must have been Zhang Yang who did it. Hu Ying could not explain why Zhang Yang secretly cut her hair in the middle of the night.
"Drunk and impulsive," Zhang Yang said that during the singing session, Hu Ying leaned against the sofa while drunk, and her hair fell on the backrest of the sofa. Her department manager accidentally touched her hair. Hu Ying's waist-length hair was Zhang Yang's favorite, and seeing this, he became angry and demanded to leave. After sending Hu Ying home, influenced by alcohol, Zhang Yang became increasingly upset, and impulsively cut his girlfriend's hair. "After cutting it, I deeply regretted it and didn't know how to explain it to her, so I left before she woke up."
Upon learning the reason, Hu Ying was furious: "The manager accidentally touched it because he was drunk, but if my colleagues find out, it will be too embarrassing." Afraid that her company would find out, Hu Ying took a sick leave and firmly decided to break up with Zhang Yang. "Both sides need some time to cool down. If we break up impulsively, we may regret it in the future." Under Peng Hong's persuasion, Hu Ying's attitude softened somewhat, but whether or not she would reconcile with Zhang Yang, she said she needed some time to consider.
"Because of love, one has hurt the other." Professor Zhou Xiaoyan from Chongqing Normal University and marriage and emotion consultant said that Zhang Yang cared too much about Hu Ying and impulsively did something wrong. If Hu Ying does not forgive Zhang Yang because of this, ending their several-year-long relationship, it might be better to treat this incident as a small episode in their relationship, strengthen communication, and show each other more respect.
By reporter Chen Jing
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