From the perspective of the collective: ancient marriage just gives you no chance to provide guidance on correct thinking and values, helping children build accurate and positive values from a young age; in a certain process, if a child's words touch on sensitive spots of the parental collective, such as when a child says that someone else's mother is very beautiful, from a legal perspective, marriage is the union of two individuals with no blood relation through a legal procedure, forming a family. They take on the titles of "husband" or "wife," and along with these titles come many duties and responsibilities for both parties.
What is marriage? Marriage is the union of a man and a woman confirmed by legal policies, and the couple relationship formed thereby. The couple relationship is a special legal relationship. In human legal interactions, there is always the shortest time interval between couples, with the deepest feelings and heaviest reliance. The couple relationship is also the foundation and center of family relationships. Once marriage is established, the couple begins independent lives, organizing and managing the economic life of the family, having children, passing down culture, handling household affairs, and taking care of the home.
Find a suitable and peaceful opportunity to communicate with your child: 1. What do you like most about Mom and Dad? Remember this well, it is the most magical aspect of you in the eyes of your child, an image you should maintain at all times; 2. For older children, you can ask who among their classmates' parents they like? Why? Understand the child’s aspirations; positive aspirations like: her mom is very gentle, then this changes your direction of effort, non-positive ones like: her mom is very beautiful; his dad is very wealthy and buys him many toys, etc., which gives you the perfect opportunity to provide guidance on correct thinking and values, helping the child build accurate and positive values from a young age; in a certain process, if the child's words touch on sensitive spots of the parental collective, similar to when the child says another person's mom is very beautiful, it does not mean that they are saying your mom is not beautiful. Everyone has a sense of beauty. What do you like most about Mom and Dad? Remember this well, it is the most magical aspect of you in the eyes of your child, an image you should maintain at all times; 2. For older children, you can ask who among their classmates' parents they like? Why? Understand the child’s aspirations; positive aspirations like: her mom is very gentle, then this changes your direction of effort, non-positive ones like: happiness is one's own understanding and feeling, not the appearance seen by others. Maintaining a family requires doubt, understanding, communication, tolerance, and even sacrifice. Rice, firewood, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, housing, work, children, housework, reality but fragmented, a mundane married life is truly real life. How to make ordinary life extraordinary depends on whether you have a broad and positive heart, recognizing the nature of life and marriage. Less nagging, more empathy, conflicts will naturally arise. To maintain harmony, at least superficial harmony, sacrificing individuality is necessary. This is not hard to understand, a group of people of varying heights, walking originally out of rhythm, how can it be easily coordinated into a harmonious and beautiful pace? But after military training, arranged from tallest to shortest, marching in step, it looks much neater. Nowadays, hotel service staff are required to undergo queue training, showing it is an effective way to improve disarray. Less calculation, more tolerance, try to pay more without calculating gains and losses. Some people think marriage is the end of love or perhaps a "grave", some say it is the sublimation and guarantee of love. Others believe that marriage is just marriage, a necessary process in life, regardless of right or wrong.