What is a man?
The Origin of the Word "Man" - Above the field and below strength, the field connects to the sky, using strength to support the sky; being born a man, one is naturally endowed with the responsibility of being a man. In its natural sense, the word "man" includes two aspects: "male" and "person." "Male" refers to gender, describing characteristics of the male human, generally not used for animals or plants. It corresponds to "female." The distinguishing features are mainly that the body can produce sperm (possessing functional organs such as the penis and testicles) and can fertilize the eggs of female animals of the same species through sexual intercourse, producing new life through the cell division of the fertilized egg. However, defining individuals with sexual dysfunction or congenital sexual deficiencies may lead to disputes. Therefore, some scholars have proposed another genetic definition method: humans possessing an asymmetric pair of sex chromosomes (XY). A very small portion of people possess all male characteristics, even having the ability to engage in sexual intercourse, but lack the ability to impregnate and do not meet the second criterion of "fake men." According to the above two definitions, they should be classified as "non-male." However, from a sociological perspective, those who possess all socially recognized male traits, including the ability to engage in sexual intercourse, should be classified as men because current society only divides gender into male and female. Since scientific definitions of "non-male" lack corresponding positions, according to the principle of proximity, they are categorized as "men." Therefore, based on widely accepted classifications, meeting either the criteria of having male characteristics and sexual capability or genetic features qualifies one as a man. "Person" refers to humanity, distinct from animals, plants, and other organisms, a highly intelligent primate. Since "male" inherently includes the meaning of "person," it is used only to describe humans (not considering anthropomorphic or playful usage), so the character "person" can often be omitted or replaced by terms like "male individual" or "male person." But adding "person" tends to emphasize its social significance (see below).
The Charm of Men
Worldly men, handsome, suave, and debonair. This is every man's ultimate ideal; this is where every man's charm lies. Without the charm of a man, it's like a tree losing its green shade, or the sun losing its brilliance. A man’s charm, which starts at three-tenths handsome, can increase to seven-tenths; making women drunk with admiration. Conquering women isn’t about a man’s toughness but his charm. Whether you're a high-level white-collar worker or an employee, a man should exhibit steadfastness, toughness, bravery, generosity, and thoughtfulness. A man's charm is grace, like fire having flames, or a lamp emitting light. It's like fine wine, becoming more fragrant with time, sipping it makes one drunk instantly; avant-garde isn't a man's charm, it's "weird taste". A wealthy man doesn't necessarily have charm. Material wealth can't build a man's charm; such a man might have too much copper stink and lack of taste, leading to a dull life. A suave man isn't necessarily charming, but a charming man is definitely suave. Being suave outwardly is beautiful; a charming man exudes youth and health, brimming with vitality, always radiant and brilliant. Possessing a man's charm isn't easy; without a certain level of cultural refinement, cultivation, and life experience, it's impossible to cultivate an intoxicating charm. A man with charm enjoys learning, delving into literature, history, and philosophy, occasionally watching popular movies but not just focusing on the plot, instead seeing different things from them. Such a man can make women fall in love with him through his inner charm, making him the most manly man. A man's charm is like still water, moving like ripples, listening to the sound of waves, like smoke and mist, enveloping us. His every step, every stretch of his waist, flows with poetry and song, and silent music. Conversing with him provides inspiration for life, no matter what occasion, his words are appropriate, his laughter warm, his love steadfast, making you calm, encouraging you, feeling the beauty and hope of life.
The Charm of Men is Graceful
A suave man isn't necessarily graceful, but a graceful man is definitely suave. The charm of men is a lingering flavor. Suaveness is the expression of a man's charm. He loves himself and others. Like spring rain, nurturing silently; like autumn breeze, gently brushing your face. With a man's unique sentiment, embracing the world with open arms. Also, the kindness, concern, and benevolence of men. What moves women most about men is their magnanimity. Benevolence isn't artificial. It's knowing warmth and coldness, knowing lightness and heaviness, understanding women's thoughts, empathizing with their joys and sorrows. Just a gentle touch gives a woman's weary soul a comforting embrace. Pitying and cherishing women, affectionate eyes, and smiling expressions, always surpass thousands of words.
The Charm of Men is Meaningful
It's mysterious, slow, stirring the heartstrings, unpredictable, penetrating to the bone, causing confusion and fascination. It has no shape, no fixed pattern, it's a subtle temptation, a hidden beauty, a yearned-for exploration, it's wisdom. Every move, every word, every glance, every smile, perfect goodness and beauty, can be said: Among ten thousand horses, one hero, captivating spring colors need not be abundant. Transcending, deeply hidden hearts inspire infinite reverie. The charm of men is emotional. The charm of men is an indelible sentiment. A man with sentiment will lovingly care for his small family, meticulously maintaining it. On weekends and holidays, wearing silk, brocade, or satin casual wear, doing housework from curtains and tablecloths, windows sparkling clean, vases with fresh flowers, all wiped spotless. The charm of men is also a style, a rhythm from inside out. That oriental charm, blossoming deep in time, does not wither with the passage of time, always enchanting all women.
The Masculine Spirit of Men
True men should be real men and great husbands. What is a great husband? Mencius said: "Living in the broadest house under heaven, standing in the correct position under heaven, walking on the broadest path under heaven. Wealth cannot corrupt, poverty cannot sway, power cannot subdue. This is called a great husband." "This means: A great husband lives in the widest house 'benevolence', stands in the correct position 'propriety', and walks on the brightest path 'righteousness'. Therefore, a 'great husband' has full virtue and confidence. When successful, he achieves great plans, bringing happiness to all living beings; when unsuccessful, he can still adhere to his principles, ensuring that wealth does not confuse his heart, poverty does not change his will, and power does not break his integrity." True men should be brave, strong, positive, optimistic, resilient, forward-looking, righteous, and willing to take responsibility. Using a Chinese idiom to describe, that would be "chivalrous and tender-hearted." Men with chivalrous and tender-hearted qualities are righteous, knowledgeable, trustworthy, reputable, upright, and kind. They dare to uphold the truth, clearly distinguish between love and hatred, possess the breadth of the sea and the tolerance to embrace everything; they do not bow down for fame and fortune, nor bully the weak. They possess both the iron bones to punish evil and promote good, and the ancient compassion to help the poor and weak; within their chivalry lies a dignified righteousness, and within their tenderness lies a delicate sensitivity. Being with such a man is like basking in the spring breeze and sunshine, you'll be infected by his passion and optimism, attracted by his gentlemanly demeanor, unknowingly imitating him, and gradually influencing and changing your worldview. If any woman could spend her life with such a man, it would truly be a happiness. He will give you emotional support, belonging, make you feel safe and reliable, and use his broad chest and arms to create a splendid sky to protect you from wind and rain! The times call for the masculine spirit of men, the Chinese nation needs the masculine spirit of men. Please have more masculinity, build the steel and iron bones of men, and become a true man who stands tall under heaven!
Eating fruit can enhance a man's masculinity
Speaking of fruits, our general understanding is their weight loss and beautifying effects. In fact, fruits can also treat sexual dysfunction and urinary tract infections. Lychee: Use 15 to 20 lychee kernels, crush them, add water, and boil to drink, which can treat swollen and painful testicles. Lotus seeds: Take 15 grams of fresh lotus seeds (do not peel off the green sprout in the center of the lotus seed), boil in water, and drink together with the lotus seeds, which can treat excessive nocturnal emission. You can also take 10 grams of fresh lotus seeds (with lotus heart), steam them on top of rice until cooked, chew and swallow, twice daily, for two days.
Food therapy formula to improve sperm quality and quantity --- Traditional Chinese medicine believes that low sperm count falls under the category of deficiency labor, mostly due to insufficient innate endowment, or excessive sexual activity damaging kidney essence, or prolonged illness leading to deficiency of both qi and blood, resulting in depletion of kidney essence sources, ultimately leading to kidney essence insufficiency and causing this condition. Regardless of the number of sperm, as long as it is caused by kidney deficiency, it can be improved with yang-enhancing foods.
Grapes: Take 250 grams of fresh grapes, remove the skin and seeds, mash them, add an appropriate amount of warm water, and drink once or twice daily for two weeks, which can treat prostatitis and short, red, painful urination.
Kiwi: Mash 50 grams of fresh kiwi, add 250 milliliters of warm water (about one cup), mix evenly, and drink, which can treat post-prostatitis painful urination.
There is also "Viagra" in food ---- Many foods in daily diets have the effect of tonifying the kidneys and strengthening yang. If you hope your husband is full of energy and masculinity, you might want to try these foods.
Mango: Take 10 grams of mango seeds, crush them, boil in water, and drink twice daily for two weeks, which can treat orchitis and swollen and painful testicles.
Ginkgo nuts: Take 10 ginkgo nuts, roast them with shells, eat the kernels twice daily, and continue for two weeks, which can treat excessive seminal emission.
Love pot ignites romantic sparks ---- At the end of the year, why not try the specially designed "love pot" herbal cuisine with your partner? Not only can couples enjoy the sweetness of cooking together, but it can also nourish women's complexion and men's bodies, making faded love regain its explosive power.
Papaya: Cut 250 grams of papaya into slices, place them in 1000 grams of rice wine or low-alcohol liquor, soak for two weeks, then drink 15 milliliters each time, twice daily for two weeks, which can treat kidney deficiency and premature ejaculation.
Jujube: Jujubes have the function of enriching blood and invigorating the spirit. Regular consumption can replenish blood, and is very effective for treating premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction.
Men's Yang Strengthening Soup ---- Men need "supplementation" more. But drug supplementation is not as good as food supplementation, and soup is the most suitable supplement for men. Male friends can choose different soups according to their physical conditions. Let men regain their male vigor.
Walnuts: Eating two to four walnuts daily can help strengthen the kidneys and replenish blood, and can also assist in treating kidney stones and urinary tract stones, delaying aging.
Foods that improve men's sexual abilities
Three meals a day have an underestimated impact on male functions. There are still many people who suffer from insufficient male functions in daily life. If you intentionally choose foods that can supplement and enhance male functions, you will surely achieve preventive and remedial effects. For this reason, the following foods are worth trying by men.
Zinc-rich foods have a significant impact on the production, quantity, and survival rate of sperm. Zinc deficiency can cause shrinkage of the male vas deferens, delayed development of the testes, epididymis, and prostate, and atrophy of the testicular epithelial cells. Studies show that each person should consume at least 15 mg of zinc daily, but the average intake is only 9 mg. Therefore, consciously eating more zinc-rich foods is beneficial for men. Among foods, oysters contain the highest amount of zinc, with 100 mg per 100 grams, earning them the title of "man's food" abroad. Additionally, beef, chicken, lean pork, chicken liver, eggs, and peanuts are all rich in zinc and can be consumed appropriately.
Arginine-rich foods are one of the raw materials for the human body to produce sperm. Arginine is most abundant in frozen tofu, with 4.11 grams per 100 grams. Other foods such as tofu skin, peanuts, walnuts, soybeans, sesame, seaweed, peas, etc., also contain relatively large amounts.
Calcium-rich foods can stimulate sperm maturation. Experiments have shown that calcium can activate inactive sperm in the bull's epididymis, increasing conception rates. Shrimp, crabs, fish, dairy products, eggs, and bean products are all rich in calcium, which can help improve male reproductive capacity.
Vitamin E-rich foods also play an important role in maintaining normal sexual organ function. Vitamin E deficiency can cause testicular damage, reduced sexual function, and disorders. Vitamin E is most abundant in plant oils, especially wheat germ oil, corn oil, and soybean oil. Sesame, peanuts, vegetable oil, dairy products, eggs, and oysters also contain relatively large amounts.
From the perspective of traditional Chinese medicine, the following foods are also effective in improving male sexual function. The testicles of cows and sheep contain male hormones and are commonly used to enhance yang, treating sexual dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. However, they contain a lot of cholesterol, which can worsen atherosclerosis, so men over middle age, especially those with hypertension and coronary heart disease, should avoid them. People with gallstones and enlarged prostate should also avoid them.
Leek and onion, which are considered to have "enhancing yang" effects in traditional Chinese medicine, are suitable for patients with erectile dysfunction, nocturnal emission, and other kidney yang deficiency problems. Especially onions, which contain allicin, oxidize in the body, have stimulating effects, and can stimulate the contraction of visceral smooth muscles, promoting the secretion of male hormones by endocrine glands.
Rooster contains a large amount of vitamin E and male hormones, which can enhance sexual function. It is often stewed with Cistanche deserticola and consumed to treat erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation caused by kidney yang deficiency.
Sparrow and sparrow eggs are believed to have "enhancing yang" effects in traditional Chinese medicine. Male pigeons contain rich amino acids, collagen, calcium, and male hormones, making them a whole-body strengthening food that enhances sexual function. They can be steamed or stewed with wolfberry and Cistanche deserticola to treat various sexual dysfunctions caused by kidney deficiency.
Certain insects contain rich proteins and have "kidney-nourishing and yang-enhancing" effects. Silkworm pupae are among the best, containing 52 grams of protein per 100 grams, higher than chicken, fish, meat, and eggs. Moreover, they contain 18 kinds of amino acids, making them a high-quality protein easily digestible and absorbable by the human body. Silkworm kidneys are also rich in calcium, phosphorus, and hormones, which can treat erectile dysfunction and nocturnal emission. Silkworm kidneys contain little fat, making them particularly suitable for middle-aged and elderly people.
Praying mantises are also a delicacy for treating kidney deficiency and erectile dysfunction. In late autumn, mantises are robust and have large abdomens filled with eggs. They can be fried or roasted and eaten.
Additionally, there are various tonic Chinese medicines, Jinshili Kang men's coffee, etc., which can significantly improve men's sexual abilities quickly and effectively.
Differences Between Men and Women
The differences between men and women mainly manifest in two aspects: physical strength and rationality. Regarding physical strength, generally speaking, men are stronger than women. The reason men are physically stronger than women is that men have a higher muscle-to-fat ratio than women. In other words, women are physically weaker than men because women have less muscle mass compared to men. Physiologically, certain parts of a woman's body require a large amount of fat, such as the abdomen, buttocks, and thighs, which are prepared for childbirth. Due to the need for breastfeeding, the breasts occupy the space of the pectoralis major muscle, thereby affecting the development of the biceps and latissimus dorsi muscles, etc. Thus, women's bodies cannot accommodate more muscles, and the lack of muscle mass compared to men fundamentally determines the rule that women are physically weaker than men. Similarly, there are significant differences in rationality between men and women. In reality, from junior high school to high school, girls' science scores generally deteriorate compared to boys'. When applying to universities, a much smaller proportion of girls apply to science programs compared to boys. In society, married women are often referred to as "housewives," who bear heavy household chores such as cooking. Normally, cooking is considered a strong suit for women, but the best chefs in society are often men. Hospitals have gynecology departments, established specifically to diagnose and treat gynecological diseases. Logically, women should have advantages and convenience over men in gynecological diseases, but often the best gynecologists are men. Society has the saying "seventy-two trades, each producing top talents," objectively speaking, the top talents produced in these seventy-two trades often belong to men rather than women. Throughout human history, spanning nearly ten thousand years, there have never been top female thinkers, philosophers, or scientists in any civilization, country, ethnicity
