, Playing cards 1. If you send a short message to someone and he does not reply, do not send again. 2. If no one is with you, learn to listen to music, read books, and write texts alone. It is a good habit. 3. Do not lose your temper with people easily. 4. If someone starts to neglect you, please leave him. Do not be reluctant for those who do not cherish you, and there is no need to continue to offer friendship or love to them. 5. If you can avoid smoking, then don't smoke. If you can avoid drinking alcohol, then don't drink. 6. Even if you feel depressed, do not go to the bar. A lonely person holding a glass of wine or smoking will feel more loneliness and sadness. 7. Develop the habit of drinking afternoon tea, reading books, and listening to music. 8. Prefer quality over quantity. Do not randomly choose a lover because of loneliness, it's unfair to both parties and shows a lack of responsibility. 9. Remember the birthdays of the people you like, including your family, and yourself. It does not matter if no one gives you gifts on your birthday, you can buy nice gifts for your mom and dad. 10. When you have free time, play some romantic music, read a few pages of a good book, and then take a lazy nap, how pleasant. You can also take a nap when you are in a bad mood. 11. From now on, be smart and do not ask others whether they miss you or love you. If they want to miss you or love you, they will naturally tell you. But if you say it yourself, others will be proud and indifferent to you. 12. Have fixed places for entertainment, such as fixed coffee shops or bookstores. Let the waiters at that place know you, so you will have a warm place to go when you are lonely. 13. Do not torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, do not skip meals, cry, isolate yourself, or become depressed, these are all things that only fools do. Of course, it is necessary to be foolish occasionally, life does not need to be always smart. 14. Do not talk about others behind their backs under any circumstances. If you must say something, say good things. 15. Allow yourself to watch soap operas occasionally, but do not become dependent on them. Allow yourself to let your hair down occasionally, but pay attention to the occasion. Allow yourself to swear occasionally, but only in front of close friends or when alone. Remember to forget the feeling of relief after saying it. 16. You must have a few friends of the opposite sex, without improper thoughts. The key is that they can help you out when necessary. 17. Learn to endure pain. Some words are better left unsaid, some pain is better forgotten silently. After experiencing it, you have grown up, and you know it in your heart. Many changes do not need to be said by you, others will see them. 18. Avoid arguing with people as much as possible. An angry person is very scary and may become crazy due to losing control of emotions. 19. No matter who you have conflicts or awkwardness with, solve it within 24 hours. Otherwise, there will be more trouble. Within the acceptable range, apologize first. It is not really a bad thing to be the bad guy sometimes.