What is the secret of a normal couple to make their marriage last till the golden wedding?

&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp, Yellow novel; more than ten years ago, a song by Zhao Yonghua was liked by almost all women. The song is called "The Most Romantic Thing". In the lyrics, it says: "The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old with you slowly. When we are too old to go anywhere, you still treat me as your treasure." &；nbsp；&；nbsp； I have a female friend who was taking a walk with her male friend. She suddenly burst into tears when she saw an old couple holding hands and walking past. The male friend felt confused because men do not understand women's persistence in emotions. Women's interest in "holding hands and growing old together" exceeds any imagination. That's why you can see a fifty-episode nagging drama called "Golden Wedding". &；nbsp；&；nbsp, Free video chat room；&；nbsp；&；nbsp； Jiang Wenli deeply reflected and said: "The hardest time for two people to be together is middle age. Both life and work pressures are huge, and both feel tired of each other. The romance between them has also decreased a lot. But as long as they get through this period, a beautiful life of 'growing old together' will come." &；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp； What is the secret for two ordinary men and women to reach a golden wedding in marriage? Some say it's compromise. I, on the contrary, think the answer should be reversed. &；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；Who with a weak will can hold out? This is a comprehensive test of willpower, physical strength, and energy. Behind the dazzling plaque of the golden wedding, there are countless reefs and shoals. They are called firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, tea, diapers, baby bottles, in-laws, salary, bonuses, temptations, infidelity, second spring, third parties, wasted time, aesthetic fatigue... &；nbsp；&；nbsp； It requires skills, perseverance, tact, human endurance, hard work, swallowing teeth with blood, "real weapons"! It needs that person (usually a woman) to have a stubborn obsession of not accepting fate, a vain attempt to achieve the impossible, and even more importantly, the resilience to remain steadfast after countless trials. &；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；The whitest powder often contains deadly lead, and the calmest and most indifferent golden wedding is behind "real weapons"! &；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；&；nbsp；The most romantic thing is often the least romantic. Related thematic articles: Later, asking Xiaotongtong, why don't you say a word? The spicy feeling stimulates my nerves. The first time being shot in the head!!! Mutual understanding