One: A wife is for cherishing. A man with good upbringing will absolutely not hit his wife. If you truly love her, then you must respect her and not lay hands on her arbitrarily. If you no longer love her, then touch your own conscience: Can I still make her happy? If the answer is negative, then let her go. Let her find someone who can truly treat her well. Allow yourself to stop making mistakes and let her be free!
Two: You should not leave her alone every other day. Women are sensitive and suspicious. She will think about many things in a negative direction. In fact, a fleeting kiss before going out or a hug when opening the door after coming home will make your woman feel excited when she remembers it later. These are not difficult for men to do, right? Remember to tell her when you're upset so that both of you can share the burden. Hold her hand and pass the warmth of your palm to her when she's upset.
Three: Do not show a bad face to your woman. A man who shows his temper to a woman is very hateful. You look neat and tidy in the business world, and she is busy inside and outside at home. The busy housework has already made her angry. You should know that all she does behind your back allows you to have no worries. Imagine a man coming home from work and saying: Honey, you've been busy all day, you're tired! The woman smiles and says: It's nothing, you're the one who's tired! That is such a harmonious picture.
Four: Men compare jobs and positions when they get together, and women compare men and children when they get together; so you must show your affection and care for her in front of her girlfriends, making her feel like a princess, possessing a complete love that makes all women envious. If she is a reasonable woman, she will definitely give you enough face in front of your buddies, allowing you to be a towering man in front of your friends.
Five: Just as men love to look at beautiful women, women also like to look at handsome men. You can be jealous and angry, but a woman who truly loves you actually has a more innocent mindset when seeing a handsome man than a man seeing a beautiful woman. She just feels some admiration when seeing something beautiful, like looking at a beautiful painting, unlike men who would have more fantasies.
Six: Men must remember never to compare your own woman with other women. Don't always say how good other people's wives are, don't scold her for not being beautiful. Her marrying you is your blessing, and saying such things is really inappropriate. For most women, hearing a word of praise from the person they love the most is better than hearing praise from everyone else combined. Moreover, if you love her, wouldn't you have the heart to hurt her?
Seven: Women like men's machismo because it makes them feel safe. But women are even more vulnerable to men's gentleness. If women's gentleness is a tool to deal with men, then men's unintentional gentleness is absolutely a nuclear weapon for women. However, women also have their nature, which is an innate maternal complex. Sometimes she may treat you like her child and indulge you everywhere, but you must remember not to take advantage of it.
Eight: Family is always first. Although men need to be responsible for their work, they also need to have professional ethics and gain joy from work, but don't become a slave to work. We work to be happier with our families and enjoy life. It's important to remember to spend time enjoying family happiness with your wife and children from time to time.
Nine: Your lover's parents are your own parents. Treat others as you want to be treated, love the house and all within it. Respect the elderly as you would your own parents. Only when you deeply feel in your heart that these are my own parents, and emotionally attach closely to the elders, will they sense this sincerity. Besides, old people are very much like children. Just like pleasing children, making the elders happy is sufficient. We ourselves will grow old one day, and we need to set an example for the younger generation so they know how to respect the elderly.
Ten: When two people are together, remember to be honest, trustful, tolerant, and understanding. Don't keep everything hidden, but you can tell white lies when necessary. The standards depend on yourself. Look at things more often from the other person's perspective, consider her situation, and understand her difficulties. Remember: You are her most beloved person. You need to understand her, support her, and be tolerant when she makes mistakes.