I have always been satisfied with my daughter.

by tuobav672 on 2012-03-01 08:30:57

At a young age, she has never caused me any trouble. On the contrary, she has helped me with many things. Especially her mouth - it's incredibly sharp. When criticizing others, she's just like her father, and when she talks, she sounds like an adult. One Sunday at home, she suddenly said, "Mom, you have to take care of me and my brother every day, and do housework. You must be very tired. Let me help you mop the floor today." Then she went to get the mop. I said, "You just want to play with the mop!" She replied angrily, "Can't you see I'm mopping the floor? How can you be so stupid? You didn't study hard when you were little, now you're dumb as hell." I couldn't argue with her, so... At the market, supermarket, KFC, bus or even train and plane, I don't need to watch her. When she encounters difficulties, she knows how to ask others for help. She's good at mopping floors and helps carry groceries. Of course, crossing the road or going to the nearby supermarket alone still worries me. After our trip to Zhujiajiao, I was really scared, but it also taught her how to cross the road. Her father asked her why she didn't cry, and she answered, "Why should I cry? There are so many people, I'd be embarrassed to death." Sometimes when I go out, if it's too cold outside, I don't take her along and instead tell her to stay home and take care of her brother, not to open the door randomly. She will play with her brother and even know how to comfort him. If her brother really wants to find mom, she will turn on the computer and play cartoons. When I come back and see both of them watching intently, I got angry and criticized her for just letting her brother watch TV. She looked at me innocently and said, "Mom, her brother cried and wanted to find you, and I couldn't comfort him no matter what, so I played cartoons. I just turned it on." I checked the playback time, and it wasn't long, obviously not since I left. My heart felt a bit sour, and I said to her, "Sorry, mom made a mistake. Thank you for taking care of your brother at home." She immediately said, "No need for thanks, but I ask you to look carefully before criticizing me next time. Don't criticize randomly, it's annoying." Besides, she is considerate and knows how to care for her family. If we don't agree with something, she will bring tea and water, help cover the blanket, remind you to drink more water, and even explain why you should drink more water. After a while, she will ask, "Do you feel better now?" Her father should deeply understand this. In addition, she likes to meddle in other people's affairs, especially in kindergarten, where she ends up not doing her own tasks well because she's busy managing others. But sometimes I am also consoled, like on the morning of the 6th, when we did the health check-up for entering the kindergarten. We had to register, pay fees, and then queue up for each check-up item. When it came to blood drawing, many children struggled fiercely. Especially the three parents in front of us couldn't handle their child, which delayed the process. So I said, "If you really can't handle your child, step aside and see how others do it." The nurse was also waiting silently without saying anything. What could have been done in one minute took five minutes. At this moment, my daughter was comforting the crying child while undressing herself. I wanted to say, "Daughter, just mind your own business and don't meddle in others' affairs," but I thought those three parents were not even as good as my five-and-a-half-year-old daughter, so I didn't speak. From undressing to finishing two glass tubes of blood and pressing with cotton, I didn't pay attention to her, not because I didn't want to, but because I had another son who would cry for an hour. I had just criticized others, and if my son started crying, I would be very embarrassed. Unexpectedly, my daughter ran over and said, "Weiwei, it doesn't hurt at all. Look, sister didn't cry. You should be brave too. Sister will praise you for being super great." Weiwei saw that the sister didn't cry and obediently told the sister, "That's right, it doesn't hurt at all. I won't cry either, and I'll be brave too." I thought, if it weren't for my daughter, my son would definitely be crying loudly. Actually, among the children there, only ours two didn't cry, all the rest were crying. I noticed that they were all brought by young parents. This is the difference between Changsha parents and Shanghai parents. Daughter, you are truly amazing wherever you are. Another big feature of my daughter is that she likes to think and solve problems herself. After the blood was drawn, it was time for the urine test. Because she was fasting, she couldn't urinate. She was very anxious, so she said to her brother, "Brother, you should urinate a little more and give some to sister, otherwise sister won't be able to go to kindergarten."... Last night during dinner, my son was crying again and I couldn't calm him down. His crying annoyed me, so I threw him outside and told my daughter not to open the door for him and to finish her own meal. I happened to have something to do and went back to my room. After a while, when I walked into the dining room, I saw both children sitting properly and eating. Moreover, my son's bowl was filled with fish meat that had been deboned, and my daughter was also deboning for herself. Seeing me come in, she said, "Brother, quickly apologize to mom, or mom will get angry and become old. Then our mom won't be beautiful anymore and will become an old woman." These were all her original words, I didn't exaggerate. Daughter, you are truly mom's little cotton-padded jacket! Recently, she often cries because she misses her dad. Her dad went to Shanghai in the morning and she cried in the evening. Now she calculates every day because her dad told her a few days ago that he would return in 20 days. This morning when she woke up, she shouted, "There are only 12 more days until dad comes back."