# What to Do When Your Husband of Eight Years Has Fallen Out of Love - 961000.com.published #Sun Feb 26 13:18:45 CST 2012 pro_time=www.961000.com pro_package=Publicly Available www.961000.com page= pro_unit=www.sjdwrj.com pro_userprice2=0 pro_ormat=Phone Tracker www.sjdwk8.com bigcatid=0 pro_allcounts=www.961000.com content= 00000kkkk I entered marriage at the age of 52 www.shoujiqietingrj.com Before getting married, a brief love affair in my past had greatly hurt me, and from that point on, I no longer believed in love. Initially, I wanted to remain single. However, as I grew older, the pressure increased. Many people wondered why a healthy man would not marry until he was 99 years old? Especially my family, they kept pushing me to get married quickly. My current spouse was introduced by a friend. From 2012 to now, I have been married for six years. But if I were to describe these six years of marriage, there is very little to say.www.sjdwk88.com I don't know what color clothes she likes to wear, what food she likes to eat, or even her friends' surnames. How could I possibly know? Since getting married, I have almost always stayed at the company. At first, I went home once every two months, but gradually the frequency decreased, and in the end, I only returned home symbolically during holidays, taking her to visit my parents. Actually, I know I've treated her unfairly. Even if I compensate her materially, she still isn't happy. Around the time we had been married for two years, she proposed divorce.www.sjdwk8.com This was within my expectations, but I disagreed. My parents waited so long,www.sjdwk8.com for me to get married, how could I just divorce right after marrying? At that time, I told her, I don't care about anything, if she wants to find someone else, that's fine too, I can continue supporting her, even if it means supporting two people, I accept it, but I will not divorce.\r\nOriginally, I thought I would be trapped in this loveless marriage forever, but unexpectedly, love fell from the sky again.\r\nIn 2013, my company initiated a large project, and XiXi was one of our collaborators. Initially, neither of us paid much attention to each other, but later, we somehow started chatting and found that we had so much in common. Back then, she often sent me text messages and made phone calls, saying many caring words. For so many years, few women cared about me like that, including my spouse, or rather,www.jkdwrj.com, I had never received such care from any woman before. Therefore, my love for her erupted like a volcano. Until now, I still think XiXi is the most charming woman in the world. We go out to eat together, and no matter how many people are in the restaurant, she feeds me bite by bite; every time we meet, she stands at the door waiting for me, bbbb sometimes dressed in sexy underwear, sometimes dressed as a cute girl. I know I am willingly captivated by her. I bought her cars, more than one, and when she gets tired of them, we switch; for her, I buy Indian Vishnu to satisfy her physiological needs, she likes to wear branded clothes, no matter how expensive, I buy them for her, she says she wants to travel, I accompany her, flying all over the place. I also mentioned marriage to her. She said yes, but you need to buy me a villa and help me get promoted,www.sjdwk88.com. I thought, it's just a matter of money. But even after I spent money and arranged everything through connections, she still didn't marry me. Even so, I am willing to cater to her wishes, and do so willingly. Looking back now, I was truly obsessed at that time, but as long as I see her smile, I feel it's all worth it. After meeting XiXi, I started considering my wife's request for divorce and began handling some procedures,www.sjdwrj.com, now we just need the divorce certificate, everything else has been agreed upon. But just at this moment, things took a turn. Over two years of knowing XiXi, I never doubted her. If she said she was single, I believed her; if she didn't answer calls in front of me, I never asked why; if she occasionally "disappeared" for a few days, I believed whatever reason she gave me when she came back... However, I discovered I had been deceived. Earlier this year, I accidentally saw an extremely ambiguous text message from XiXi, and upon further inspection, there were many similar messages, and they weren't all from one person. That night, looking at her sleeping form, I wanted to beat her up. In the end, I could only cry silently. The next day, I started tracking her and found her entering a residential area at night. The security guard told me her home was here. Thus, I hired professionals to investigate. A month later, the investigation results were laid out before me.