Today, I read a novel called "Good Weather for One Person" "On the kitchen stove, the boiling water bubbles, ignored and sad." This is a sentence that my grandmother said to comfort Zhishou, who was feeling down about everything. I've recited it many times, and I feel much more comfortable myself. Is this sentence melancholy? In fact, whether it's melancholy or not depends on the inner feeling. Although I don't know what the future will be like, fortunately, I eventually found myself. The freedom of one person may lead to greater happiness, just like the boiling water on the stove, freely humming a song. Looking back at everyone's growth path, it seems that there is always such a grandma or grandpa, like in Chuxiong. In "Encountering the Unknown Self," Zhang Defen wrote that Ruoling's life mentor was an old man. The old man gave her a rule: "Dear, there is no one else outside, only yourself." All people, events, and things are projections of your inner self, like a mirror reflecting your inner being. When something outside triggers you, remember to look inward. Yes, if you can't change the world, then change your worldview. If you have trouble with the world, it's actually more about having trouble with yourself. Everything that happens to you is a gift, some gifts are wrapped with good things, while others are wrapped with bad things. But if you don't open them, how will you know what life has given you?