Become a part of my memory. This year, I have felt and understood a lot of things: the pressure, energy, vitality, and helplessness of being an adult. In the past year, I established a family and began a semi-independent life as a couple. Housework came one after another, and I, who rarely did housework, also picked up the broom and mop, and started the battle in the midst of my wife's complaints. Often, due to various mistakes that failed to achieve the expected goal, I suffered from my wife's big move, thus observing and reflecting from the side, over and over again. In this year, my wife changed two jobs, neither of which was very good, so I reluctantly let her get by. There were also many conflicts in the nearly one-year life of the couple, which were caused by differences in living habits and spending patterns. I tried to keep the impact of these conflicts within the smallest possible range, which made me headache a lot. In November 2011, my wife became pregnant and became the key protected object of the family. She had severe reactions and vomited non-stop. I felt very sorry for her, but there was nothing I could do... I couldn't beat the child through her stomach, could I? The real estate market was not good in 2011, so the company invested heavily in advertising to improve efficiency. Therefore, in this reverse trend, my work increased significantly, and I took on more tasks and responsibilities. Innovation and creativity became the theme of all the work this year. For better work, I tried to communicate with strangers, met a lot of people, and made quite a few friends. Many responsible persons of processing units in Nantong were changed, so I had to get acquainted with new responsible persons, understand the latest trends in the advertising market, and learn about the newest materials and processes. In this year, I also learned a lot of new things for work.
This year, life has been warm, argumentative, stressful, and indulgent. This year, I slowly walked through it like this.
2012 will be the second year of my life as a husband and the first year as a father... The burden on my shoulders feels even heavier, and I need to work harder to make money... for our family.