A speech by a teacher from Tsinghua University - extremely beneficial

by szbaojia on 2012-02-17 11:00:46

1. A person, if you don't push yourself, you basically don't know how excellent you are.

2. Making money is a talent, spending money is a level of skill, ability can be practiced, but level is not easily attainable.

3. Young people should not be too arrogant.

4. A person's knowledge can be gained through learning; a person's growth must be achieved through trials.

5. There are many good books in the world, but few can change one's fate.

6. There are many friends in this world, but very few with whom you can entrust your life.

7. If you find a person, a place, an event, or a book that can change your destiny, you must try to establish a connection with it; otherwise, it will have nothing to do with you.

8. When a person has not succeeded, they should still pretend to look successful (because when pretending, it becomes part of your character).

9. The purpose of our learning is for application, not because knowledge is useless, but because you haven't applied it, which shows that you are useless.

10. Other people's attitudes towards you determine your fate.

11. Smile comes from the heart.

12. When a person goes out, their pockets are filled with money, and the goal of having money is to spend it where it feels best. A person who makes others comfortable is an operator; someone who lets you feel comfortable is a consumer.

13. For a person to dare listen to the truth requires courage; for a person to dare speak the truth requires magnanimity.

14. Because of your existence, if you make others happy, you are called a friend; because of your existence, if you make others outstanding, you are a coach; because of your existence, if you make others powerful, you are a guide.

15. The degree to which something hurts you has no relation to the thing itself, but depends on your attitude towards it.

16. When you are simple, your world becomes simple; when you are simple, things become simple.

17. If you know how to do something, do it well; if you don't know how to do it, do it randomly. The more times you do it, the better you'll naturally get, but first, you need to start doing it.

18. To become excellent, a person must accept challenges; to become excellent quickly, one must seek challenges.

19. A person who wants to start a business must first learn how to work as an employee.

20. In this world, there are two types of successful people: one type is foolish, the other is crazy. Foolish people are those who know how to endure losses, and crazy people are those who take action.

1. "Beautiful women often end up alone because they refuse to compromise in love; handsome men usually end up with less attractive women because they compromise with life. Therefore, beautiful women and handsome men cannot last long together because they are used to being surrounded and pleased. Beautiful women are like flowers that should be picked early; handsome men are like fruits that should not be encountered too early."

2. "As a child, I wished to grow up quickly. As an adult, I realized I lost my childhood; being single, I envied lovers' sweetness, while in love, I missed the freedom of being single. Many things seem wonderful when we don't have them, but once we do, we begin to realize: 'While gaining, we also lose.' PS: Gains and losses are inevitable, face them calmly."

3. "In the world of love, no one owes anyone else anything, only those who don't cherish what they have. Grievances that can be voiced aren't grievances, and lovers who can be taken away aren't true lovers. Not voicing grievances only harms oneself, not letting go of those who don't love you means missing out on those who do." PS: While crying, feeling wronged, actually the heart is gradually learning strength.

4. "On the journey of life, we all run, overtaking some people and being overtaken by others. The essence of life is appreciating the scenery along the way and reaching a distant destination; the secret is finding a speed that suits us best, neither rushing nor wasting life; happiness lies in walking our own path, seeing our own scenery, not being proud when surpassing others, and not losing heart when surpassed." PS: In despair, look up at the sky, think about the meaning of existence.

5. "One day, friendship and love met. Love asked friendship: Since there is me, why does your existence matter? Friendship laughed and said: Love makes people cry, while friendship exists to wipe away tears!"

PS: From the bottom of my heart, I value friends, even if we don't contact, don't talk much, I still depend on them deeply.

6. "I love you so much, but I don't know how to get closer to you, so I think leaving is also acceptable. It doesn't matter much, the result is the same anyway, whether it's good or bad isn't important, what matters is that I was once infatuated with you, just like I am attached to a carved chair from late Qing Dynasty."

PS: Annie's words always bring warmth along with a bit of pain, love is a lifelong study and endeavor.

7. "I want to give you happiness, but I can't enter your world. I would exchange my whole world for a ticket into your world, but that's just my wishful thinking. Your world, you don't care; my world, I've been driven out. I really like you, close my eyes, I think I can forget, but the tears flowing down didn't deceive myself."

PS: Allow yourself to bear everything alone.

8. "Don't let happiness pass you by: the person who understands you best will always be around protecting you, making sure you don't feel any grievance; the person who truly loves you may not say many loving words, but will do many loving deeds. If you find such a person nearby, cherish them... Happiness won't wait for you, neither will the person you love or the person who loves you."

PS: Wait for the person who understands me.

9. "The most beautiful and irreplaceable scenery in life should be effort. Effort is a state of spirit, a childlike devotion to life. Effort is the mother of possession, possession is the child of effort. With full effort, all roads lead to Rome. So, rather than defining oneself as a certain kind of person or acquiring certain things, strive to be an effortful person."

PS: Long ago, I should have understood, the most beautiful moment isn't the moment of success, but looking back at the hardships of the struggle afterwards.

10. "Life has no eternal sorrow, no insurmountable obstacles. Let's learn from the willow tree, seemingly weak yet resilient, the wind blows but it doesn't break; too strong a trunk breaks in the wind. Learn to abandon, learn to endure, learn to be strong, learn to smile, that's another kind of beauty! Appropriate abandonment is an elegant turn in life."

1. Mountains can fall, people can run away, but only oneself is the most reliable.

2. No one accompanies you for a lifetime, so you must adapt to loneliness; no one helps you for a lifetime, so you must strive for a lifetime.

3. Rather than regret today with tears, it's better to fight for today with sweat.

4. When tears are gone, what remains should be strength.

5. Life is like a cup of coffee without sugar, bitter when tasted, but leaves a lingering aftertaste upon reflection.

6. There's a kind of bond, which becomes a landscape after letting go; there's a heart, which reveals sincerity in persistence.

7. Choose what you love, love what you choose.

8. If you don't give up in this second, there will be hope in the next.

9. Remember what you once had, cherish what's hard to obtain, don't give up what belongs to you, and don't force what doesn't belong to you, leave what's lost behind as a memory.

10. If you like, cherish; if you cherish, don't give up.

11. Life is a journey, not caring about the destination, but about the scenery along the way and the mood to enjoy it.

12. Don't compare with others, but surpass yourself; cry when necessary, laugh with a growing character.

13. Those who rejoice in your sadness are enemies; those who rejoice in your joy are friends; those who grieve for your sadness are your conscience.

14. If you love, love deeply; if you don't love, leave.

15. As long as there's hope in your heart, there's happiness.

First sentence: "People are forced to change." Everyone has potential, living in peace leads to death in adversity, so when facing pressure, don't be anxious, maybe it's just life's little test for you. Believe in yourself, everything can be handled well. Urgency can drive heroes to Liangshan, times create heroes, poverty leads to change, people only gain power under pressure.

Second sentence: "If you are simple, the world will be simple for you." Simple living leads to a happy life, contentment brings joy, tolerance brings greatness. Nothing should be thought complicated, the mental burden is heavy, and you will blame heaven and earth. Periodically delete unpleasant memories.

Third sentence: "Life has no rehearsals, every day is live broadcasting." Sometimes I wonder, if life were like a video game, where you could restart if you messed up, what would life be like? Precisely because time flows irreversibly, each day cannot be retrieved, so cherish every moment, respect parents, care for children, be considerate to loved ones, be kind to friends.

Fourth sentence: "Having talent is like being pregnant, time will reveal it." People, don't be overly self-righteous, the Earth will continue to spin without you, throughout history, those who relied on talent ended up badly. So, even if talented, remain humble and diligent, focus on your own affairs, gold will shine eventually.

Fifth sentence: "In the past, meeting a thousand cups with a friend was common, now, a thousand cups without a friend is rare." Not a great drinker, I understand the taste of liquor, but I feel the charm of friendship. Life without friends is lonely and incomplete, but due to busy lives, contact diminishes, and friendship fades. So, take some time, chat with friends, let the camaraderie rise in laughter, and when friends are in trouble, stand up and support them, even if unable to help, comfort is the greatest support.

Sixth sentence: "If life takes a wrong turn, ending is progress." People always find it hard to correct their mistakes, they also find it hard to discover their errors. Sometimes, knowing the mistake, yet unable to stop, leading to repeated mistakes, grasp the right direction, adhere to principles, resist temptations, don't seek temporary pleasure at a heavy cost, if wrong, must stop.

Seventh sentence: "Two tragedies in life: one is complete despair, the other is overconfidence." Modern people seem particularly fragile, newspapers daily report numerous celebrities suffering from depression, these people must have moved from one extreme to another. Believing oneself to be perfect and omnipotent, a small setback can lead to extreme self-doubt, even losing the will to live. Find a proper position, enjoy life's pleasures.

Eighth sentence: "Life and love are the same, missing love is missing life." What is love? It confuses and captivates, facing love, be bold, express your love, seize the moment, don't wait until it's too late. People age and die, however one lives, it's a lifetime, missing love is missing life's brilliance.

Ninth sentence: "Rich people eventually become couples." Modern society becomes increasingly materialistic, love becomes dispensable, thus "rich people eventually become couples" is the most accurate description of modern love.

Tenth sentence: "To succeed, you need friends; to achieve great success, you need rivals." Competition leads to development, because of rivals' existence, because of the unwillingness to lose, efforts are made to do one's best. Thus, sometimes, rivals have more power than friends, there are no eternal rivals, but eternal friends, sometimes rivals can become friends.

1. Perhaps the more beautiful, the more fragile, like the summer foam.

2. "If loving you can make you happy, then I will love you; if not loving you can make you happy, then I just like you."

"Then - what about your happiness?"

"My happiness is watching you happy."

3. If at the beginning, you hadn't appeared before my eyes, then perhaps I wouldn't have known the taste of happiness. How cruel you are, giving me all the love so unexpectedly, telling me that you will always like me, love me, never leave me, making me mistakenly believe that I can be happy like a spoiled child, making me mistakenly believe that as long as I hold onto you, I can own the whole world.

4. "How long will you like me?"

"Forever."

"Even if you no longer love me, even if you have forgotten me, even if you have disappeared from this world, I will still love you."

"That's nonsense, if you're not in this world anymore, how can you still love me?"

"I will find an angel to love you for me."

5. If I lose your love, I will be like a soulless shell in this world, unable to find home.

6. When you are happy by my side, happiness is by my side; when I hear your laughter, happiness is already by my side.

7. Habitual fragility makes the heart gradually weak, habitual dependence makes one forget how to depend on oneself. Once tears lose their effectiveness, once isolated and helpless, if one becomes weak, how to protect loved ones and oneself?

8. I miss you so much, but I don't want to see you.

9. If at the beginning, you hadn't told me that you will always like me, never leave me, as long as I hold onto you, I can own the whole world.

10. That year, who stayed awake for three days and nights planting a pond full of lotus flowers? Who held 14 pink lotus flowers saying he liked me? Who said he would always protect me and make me happy? Wasn't it from the start a lie? Please don't harm me anymore, I will be sad, my heart will feel torn apart. If you still like me, please cherish me. If you don't like me, I will leave you.

12. If you don't like, what can you do? Knowing your own feelings is enough. You can't expect everyone in the world to be your friend, to care for you. Cherish those who are good to you, let the rest go!

13. Since we have announced our relationship to everyone, we are a couple, never to split, never to abandon each other.

14. Heaven will not forever favor one person, giving much luck, followed by much hardship. What she can do is seize the opportunity for happiness, striving to reach the highest possible peak. So, no opportunities can be missed.

15. If you can never love me, I will give you the right to separate.

16. In this world, no one can be truly trusted, only trust yourself, because only yourself will not betray you, deceive you, or leave you.

17. I want to stand on my own feet in this world, with enough influence, enough money, to protect those I want to protect, and in the face of any disaster, I will not be defeated.

1. That boy who unintentionally changed my life. I believe someday, we will meet again on the roof of the world. Don't easily judge life's happiness or sadness based on the past, everyone's life can bloom beautifully as long as you cherish it.

2. No one stays seventeen forever, but there are always seventeen-year-olds.

Because of a memory only I remember, I have grown up. Growing up to bravely face all storms in life.

3. I have always liked the afternoon sun. It makes me believe that anything in this world can turn around, believe in the kindness and beauty of fate.

We will grow up eventually, with a calm heart. After all, growing up is a kind of happiness.

4. Listen quietly to the songs you like, watch from afar the people you like.

5. Actually, the structure of the word "person" is mutual support. As long as you are willing, anyone can give anyone happiness!

6. I know wherever I go, you will be by my side. Cry with me, laugh with me, wait with me, bloom with me.

7. Love is like candy coating, I swallowed it whole, enjoying the instant sweetness.

8. The deepest pain is forgiveness, the darkest darkness is betrayal.

9. We are all single-winged angels, only by embracing can we fly.

10. We live in the same warm waters, occasionally entangled by water plants, but because of each other's warm breaths, we believe we won't form dead knots. If I say I love you, I have always loved you, do you believe it?

11. Growth is like this, painful yet joyful. You must accept all the harm the world brings you, and then fearlessly grow up.

12. Love is a battle, I'm not afraid of getting hurt, I'm just afraid you're not happy.

13. Is it because you don't care enough, that you can't feel my deep affection?

14. Love is a destined tide, and oneself is a boat waiting to dock. Tides come and go, standing firm, sinking and floating, it's unavoidable.

15. In the drama of love, there is always a protagonist and a supporting role, the protagonist is always tired, the supporting role is always hurt.

16. Like flowing water. Money, status, beauty, and love, in the end, are all like flowing water.

17. I rush forward, hoping to find a face similar to mine in the crowded and hurried crowd. She shares a similar fate with me. I can see the reference of my own fate in her, knowing where to go without rushing.

18. I don't have the moon.

This moon belongs to many people, but not to me. Warmth is unattainable.

19. This is how we grow old, from one end of time to the other. Please don't say goodbye, no need for goodbye.

20. Sweet talk, listen with the left ear.

You will never see me love you the most, because I only love you when I can't see you. Similarly, you will never see me the loneliest, because I am the loneliest when you can't see me.

Dream, but don't daydream; be passionate, but not sentimental. Be content with what you have.