If you feel tired of life, take a look at these...... Learn to be silent Sometimes, you are misunderstood by others, and you don't want to argue, so you choose to remain silent. Not everyone needs to understand you, so you think there's no need to shout to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, you are too sad to argue, and you can only choose to keep silent. The whole world may not understand you, but he should. If he can't understand you, what is there left to say? Life often has moments when even Schubert would be speechless. After all, not all rights and wrongs can be clearly listed, or there might be no real right or wrong at all. So, if you don't want to talk, then don't. When talking more won't help, perhaps silence is the best explanation. At least stay calm When you fall into the bottom of life, all the people around you tell you: be strong, and be happy. Strength is absolutely necessary, but happiness? In such a situation, it might be too much to ask. After all, who can feel happy when they're badly hurt? But at least you can stay calm. Calmly deal with this matter, calmly handle other things that need to be dealt with. Calmness, without happiness, also without unhappiness. Learn to bend over This will be my unexpected harvest Have disagreements with others, even leading to verbal conflicts, so you are unhappy because you think it's all due to their ill intentions. Stop dwelling on it, go home and mop the floor instead. Grab a cloth, bend down, kneel down, and thoroughly clean every corner of the floor in front of you. Then rethink each word you said during that conflict. Now, do you find that you were also wrong in some ways? Are you gradually calming down? Sometimes you must learn to bend over, because this action can make you humble. While working hard physically, you also brighten your mood. And, you also have a shiny clean floor. That's your second harvest. Don't always think about "what if" You say that life is a long road with countless forks, always making choices. If it's just choosing between fried noodles and fried rice, the impact seems small, but choosing what major to study, what job to do, whether to get married or not, whether to have children or not, every choice has far-reaching effects, and different choices will certainly lead to completely different lives. You also say that the unbearable part of life is that there's no chance to start over. If only then...now wouldn't be like this... Such self-talk filled with regret should stop now. Each choice at the fork actually doesn't have truly good or bad outcomes. If you see life as your unique creation, you won't keep looking back on what would've happened if you made different choices. Just try your best, regardless of success or failure, at least once it was beautiful Strolling through the woods, you see a vine clinging to the tree trunk, softness and strength intertwined. You are moved by this tranquil beauty. Let happiness and belonging linger here. You think. What storms lie ahead? Perhaps the vine will break, the tree will fall, perhaps heaven will waste away, earth will grow old. You think again. Then let time freeze at this moment. Freezing means eternity. If there's this tranquil beauty in eternity, whatever disasters may come in the future, they will have been comforted and rewarded. Stay simple Because of excessive thinking, you often complicate your life. Living in the present, you are always reminiscing about the past, worrying about the future; carrying the past, future, and present together, your life is naturally filled with fast-paced chatter. Simplicity is a state of grace. Simply feel the changes in weather with your skin, simply savor the grassy scent after the rain with your nose, simply take in the distant and near scenery with your eyes as if it's a painting. Simply live in the moment. And the moment is actually beyond length and reality. Since there's no right or wrong, there's no need to think; no truth or falsehood, no need to worry day and night. Without right or wrong, isn't it like dreaming? Yes, just simply treat your life as a dream and act accordingly. Occasionally be a little "vulgar"... Eating too much healthy food, occasionally you also want to nibble on duck tongues and salted chicken wings. Watching too many masterpieces, occasionally you also want to glance at soap operas filled with slaps and endless tears. Listening to too much classical music, occasionally you also want to sing songs about loving someone for a hundred years and hating them for ten thousand years. You know that healthy food is meaningful for digestion, masterpieces are meaningful for cultivating temperament, classical music is meaningful for elevating the soul, but occasionally you really don't want to live so meaningfully all the time. Life doesn't need to bind itself so tightly. Occasional small indulgences are moral. Being full of spirit or close to adulthood, occasional vulgarity makes one more approachable. Control your emotions, don't waste them~ Today's you, is an unhappy you, because someone hurt you with words. You don't like arguing, so you leave; but you just leave the place, not the situation where you were hurt by that person, so you become angrier the more you think about it. The angrier you get, the less energy you have to care about other things, many more important things that need attention and thought are neglected in your overwhelming frustration. Because, you are solely focused on being angry. Dwell on emotions, it's a waste of yourself, and a very bad waste. After all, anger also takes energy, and anger definitely hurts vitality. So, wise as you are, don't let emotions control you. Before you get angry, gently remind yourself: "Don't waste it." Seize the best opportunity, never miss it You once bought a favorite piece of clothing but were reluctant to wear it, carefully preserved in the wardrobe; after a long while, when you saw it again, you found it had gone out of style. So, you missed it. You also once bought a beautiful cake but were reluctant to eat it, carefully preserved in the fridge; after a long while, when you saw it again, you found it had gone stale. So, you also missed it. Clothes not worn when most liked, cakes not tasted when most delicious, are like things not done when most wanted to be done, all regrets. Life also has an expiration date, things to do should be done early. If you just solemnly preserve your wishes in your heart but never act on them, then the only result will be missing them, just like that expired clothing, just like that expired cake. Occasionally deviate from the track Once you planned to take the train to destination A, but halfway through, you suddenly decided to get off at B. Maybe an interesting name attracted you, maybe a fleeting view touched you, anyway, you changed your original plan, and experienced an unexpected journey full of surprises. Destination A was your original goal, but B gave you a small adventure. Looking back, you say, it was an unforgettable experience of going off track. Many times in life are like this. Focusing solely on one goal is just following the original plan; leaving the preset track gives you the chance to discover other landscapes. Quietly return to peace... There was a time when you were feeling low, even too lazy to pull open the curtains and look at the sunshine outside the window. Therefore, you naturally forgot to check on the marguerite on the windowsill that needed water every day. How long did this go on, you don't know. Until one day, you got through the low point, and also remembered your marguerite. My goodness, poor flower, is she still alive? You carefully pulled the curtain, and saw her swaying in the wind, her flowers smiling at you. It turns out that during this period, although you forgot to water her, heaven didn't forget to nourish her with rain. Many things quietly happen beyond your sight, and quietly arrange themselves. All living things are born, all are nourished by heaven, everything is actually unnecessary to worry about... All you need to do is to be yourself, leave no regrets... that's enough.