2. Before the age of 30, under the premise that family and oneself allow and in a controllable situation, one should spend as much money as possible, learn as much as possible about the new things in this world, buy as many books as possible, eat as many kinds of food as possible, and add as many clothes for oneself as possible. This is not to tell you that you can indulge in luxury. After the age of 30, you will find that no matter how much money you have, it's never enough. You will find there are too many things in this world you don't know. You will regret not reading more books. You will find that you have lost your appetite for many foods. You will find that you can't wear many clothes that look very ugly anymore.
Bottom line for the post-80s generation:
4. You must learn how to cook, how to wash clothes, write poems about lilies, take care of yourself, and learn the most basic survival skills, modern poems about maternal love. In these aspects, parents are the best teachers, and they will be willing to teach you these things. It's best to understand the most basic hygiene and health principles for men and women, know a few tricks in life, and master one or several signature dishes. Everyone will face life alone one day. After the age of 30, if you don't even know how to wash a pair of socks, and the food you cook is so salty that even pigs can't eat it, unless Bill Gates is your godfather, otherwise, no matter how rich you are, it's the same.
3. Before the age of 30, the thing in this world that is least likely to betray you is your own body. However, after the age of 30, the thing that is most likely to betray you is also your own body. Before the age of 30, you can binge eat and drink, get lost in revelry, stay up all night playing CS in front of the computer until your eyes look like you've just eaten human flesh, and smoke an entire pack of cigarettes until your neighbors call the police suspecting a fire at your place. After the age of 30, your body will tell you with various diseases that you must have been brain-dead back then to torture yourself so much. www.yikexun.cn
1. The first time of ML (making love) should not be taken too seriously. This is hard to achieve but must be achieved. This is not telling you that you can go wild. The reasons can be referred to in point 4. The main reason for saying this is that there are too many temptations in this world, and you are really too young. You may wake up one day and find that the person lying next to you is not the one you love the most. This moment of awakening may be delayed for a long time. If you don't understand the reality in time and insist on caring about who you gave your first time to, when the second time comes, you will suffer even greater harm. You can understand this point as giving your first time to the person who loves you the most. (Please note: not the person you love the most.)