Year-End Summary of Child-Rearing by Post-80s Expert Moms
Written by Jiǔwěi Hú (Nine-Tailed Fox)
In the blink of an eye, post-80s moms have become the main force among child-rearing experts. Fashionable child-rearing methods often lead my thinking. Thus, I frequently ponder: if there will be another child in the future, we shouldn't fall behind; we should also be fashionable child-rearing experts!
My close friend laughed at how trendy I am. She said that if I want a second child, I need to relax and not miss out on new parenting ways. After saying this, she pulled me to join a gathering of post-80s moms. While walking with her, I thought: this crazy girl, even after becoming a mom, hasn't changed. No wonder sometimes I feel a bit old-fashioned.
The meeting location was not far. When we arrived, several moms were already there drinking coffee and chatting. Women together often talk about men and cosmetics, but after becoming moms, it's basically all about kids. Which brand of clothes suits the baby? Which brand of formula is suitable for the baby? What kind of child-rearing method is worth recommending? These are topics that interest mothers.
The salon wasn't very large, but it had a warm atmosphere. Every weekend, my close friend would come here to participate in the mom's salon, obtaining the latest child-rearing information and the joy shared among women. I quickly became infected by this atmosphere, sipping coffee while listening to the moms discuss various topics. Time passed so quickly, leaving me with a feeling of unfinished business.
After returning home, sitting by the computer, I made a year-end summary for post-80s expert moms, which might be useful for the next child!
b Taking care of both husband and children after becoming a mom
Post-80s moms' new approach to child-rearing involves balancing both husband and children after becoming a mom. This is especially evident in post-80s moms. In their eyes, happiness comes from marital stability and the happy growth of children. Of course, after having a child, one cannot neglect the feelings of the husband. Sharing the responsibility of child-rearing with the man is the foundation of happiness. Thus, the flexibility of post-80s moms is demonstrated, learning to be coy and enticing men to participate in the process of child-rearing, allowing the baby to receive the best love. This not only enhances the sweetness of marriage but also ensures that the child does not lose the guidance of paternal love. This concept promotes balanced character development in children, especially beneficial for cultivating boys' qualities.
b Trendiness, the major trend led by post-80s moms
Trendiness is the key trend led by post-80s moms. Post-80s moms value the quality of life, which is particularly reflected in the dressing of babies. Trendy babies, under the careful protection of their moms, truly form a beautiful landscape. Actually, I admire the style of post-80s trendy moms dressing up their babies, maintaining comfort while showcasing the individuality of the babies. The injection of this new concept allows babies to develop their temperament from a young age, which is why the post-00s generation often makes people proud. Cultivating temperament is indeed crucial!
b Healthy and reasonable nutritional combinations
Healthy and reasonable nutritional combinations are significant experiences in child-rearing for post-80s moms. Post-80s moms advocate health, placing baby food as the top priority. Choosing the right type of milk powder and complementary foods is the number one concern for post-80s moms. Moms often exchange information about different types of milk powders, selecting the one most suitable for their own babies. In the post-80s mom's salon, Beiyinmei milk powder has been highly regarded due to its solid reputation and quality. In the eyes of post-80s moms, milk powder suitable for Chinese babies' physical constitution is the first choice, and Beiyinmei precisely fits this criterion. Reasonable nutritional combinations allow babies to grow healthier.
b Still focusing on self-cultivation after becoming a mom
Cultivation is a lifelong endeavor for women. In the eyes of post-80s moms, one should not abandon personal cultivation after becoming a mom; beauty is the foundation of a woman's youth. Most post-80s moms we see are quite fashionable; they don't forget beauty because of the arrival of a child. Various clothing and cosmetics still make up the mainstream consumption of post-80s moms. Precisely because of the good temperament of the mom, she knows how to dress the child and how to cultivate the child's temperament. Therefore, part of the child's temperament stems from the mother's cultivation.
b Emphasizing early education of children
Ages 0-3 are the critical period for brain development in babies. At this time, what the baby needs most is the company and education of the mother. Therefore, we see many post-80s moms transitioning into full-time housewives, taking care of their babies at home to give them the fullest love. From this perspective, one can't help but admire the courage of the post-80s generation, who can give up everything but gain something in return. Early education is fully embodied in post-80s moms. Many advanced child-rearing concepts are not only obtained from books but also quickly gained online. These advanced child-rearing concepts make our babies smarter.
Summarizing so much, as a post-70s mom, I am often impressed by the child-rearing views of post-80s moms. Many times, I think: if we summarize their child-rearing experiences step by step, it would be like a child-rearing encyclopedia.
When I mentioned this idea to my close friend, she laughed at me and said I should attend more salons, exchange more with post-80s moms to obtain the latest child-rearing concepts. It enriches your inspiration and gives you more knowledge. Why wouldn't you do it? I nodded, indicating agreement.
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