On "March 8th", let's talk about women's issues

by hchoigrxt on 2010-05-30 10:37:53

Sun Lu, 20 years old: Even Wonder Woman needs a man. Regarding Hai Zao in "Snail House," I despise her but do not reject her outright. Women should not fall in love with unavailable men; emotions require an understanding of cost. I've never been on a blind date, which is quite a blow to one's confidence. It makes you feel like a robot, defined by age, height, and income - all numbers. Feminism isn't about suppressing men; emotionally, women always rely on men. I can guarantee that, regardless of so-called 'career women' or even 'superwomen' who can change light bulbs, unclog toilets, and carry rice bags, there will definitely be times when they need a man. Before the age of 25, I didn't care much about Women's Day, but now, it's a happy day - a festival that men don't have. I haven't had any plastic surgery, but I'm not opposed to it. A woman's face and body belong to herself; why consider a man's opinion? Reflection at 20: Every day is fresh! Expect more opportunities in my career, and wait patiently for love.

Any story ultimately needs an ending. Outcome A: The ant tribe returns to smaller towns where the scenery is beautiful, house prices are moderate, and life is suitable for retirement. Outcome B: Just like the beginning of the movie version of "Sex and the City," year after year, girls in their twenties come to New York seeking two things: brands and love... Who could be happier, who could be more miserable? Frankly, I don't know. But as a young person, compared to the former's simple happiness, I prefer the latter's dramatic storyline. The former represents a conservative warmth, while the latter has a quality akin to "The Old Man and the Sea," more human, more like life. When comparing the pros and cons of big and small cities, what I understand most clearly is that compared to the harsh realities of big cities, excessive attention from others is the heaviest burden for the ant tribe. This year, affected by the financial crisis, many unemployed or soon-to-be-unemployed young people in Japan's big cities can only live in capsule hotels, which are barely larger than a fallen refrigerator and require crawling into horizontally. However, during interviews, they did not feel hardship because when the ant tribe moves from hometowns constrained by "acquaintance society" to fiercely competitive yet relatively fair big cities, they already understand when they need to endure hardships in the city and when they can unleash themselves in appropriate places. Their optimistic struggle in difficult environments sufficiently proves their resilience! So at this moment, if you're not part of the ant tribe, please put away your compassionate looks. Sympathy is the expression the ant tribe needs the least. For any young person, those terrible current situations are a necessary part of their resume. Ignoring them is the best thing you can do for the ant tribe. If you're part of the ant tribe, you certainly don't need to care about our female report observation this time. Returning to a smaller place is your last option. There's no rush to go back after seeing the world. The big city belongs to each of us; no one can drive away the diligent you! (Long Xin) Independent Viewpoint: Ignoring is the best salvation for the ant tribe.

Sun Lu, 20-year-old woman: A vibrant and lively girl from the ice city of Harbin. She has worked in Chongqing for over two years and is currently single. Host of Chongqing Story Radio's "Breakfast Time" and "Film & TV Unusual Path."

Lu Zi, 30-year-old woman: Director of the Chongqing Story Radio Program Department, with a warm smile, she's an intellectual woman who brings happiness and also a good wife. With 12 years of work experience, she has hosted multiple programs such as "Popular Music Network," "News Express," and "Music Space."

Nan Yue, 40-year-old woman: Deputy Chief Editor of Chongqing Story Radio. With 22 years of radio work experience, she's a mature and rational beautiful woman. She has hosted various programs including news, social education, literature and art, and songs. Programs like "The World of Wonders," "Happy Sunday," and "Yuzhou Style" remain unforgettable to listeners.

In the "Dialogue 20-30-40" program, male host Fei Fan expanded on women's lives, throwing out spicy topics such as "premarital sex," "viewing 'mistresses' and 'extramarital affairs' from 'Snail House,'" and "women's plastic surgery." Sparks flew during the one-hour live broadcast.

Nan Yue, 40 years old: Premarital sex? Acceptable for modern people. But not for my daughter. If a man has an extramarital affair, we must see if it's occasional or habitual. If the family can be salvaged, don't give up easily. Extramarital affairs are exhausting, especially for a 40-year-old woman. A stable family is crucial. The world of 'the other woman' doesn't have 'love'; it's a very unkind act. Reflection at 40: Naive and green at 20, busy and bustling at 30, and gradually reaching the peak at 40.

Lu Zi, 30 years old: Women should give men a sense of security. I think there should be a "Men's Day." Women need care, and men need consideration. My "March 8th" Women's Day feels like Mother's Day because whenever I have time, I shop with my mother; filial piety cannot wait. I dislike women who gather to gossip idly. Women should give men a sense of security. A 'career woman' should be strong inside, not overly aggressive or decisive, and provide a relaxed environment for men. Reflection at 30: Time flies, and before you know it, the playful 20s are gone. At 30, one becomes more introverted and rational, content with life.

On International Women's Day, our newspaper collaborated with FM103.5 Chongqing Story Radio to create a special program called "Dialogue 20-30-40," inviting three female broadcasters of different ages to share their life stories and discuss matters related to women in the live studio.