Never love someone too much, or you will be led by the nose, easily losing your composure, as if touched by a magic wand, completely unable to control yourself. From then on, you will no longer have your own thoughts, no longer have your own joys and sorrows. You will center around her; when you are with him, he is the whole world; when you are not with him, the world is him.
Loving someone too much will make you tolerantly unprincipled towards them. Gradually, they become accustomed to such indulgence, ignoring your sacrifices for them, and may even think you're annoying, having no personality, or even start to look down on, neglect, and disrespect you...
When you love someone too much, you are no different from a candle, burning yourself without hesitation just to seek a moment's light and heat. When the candle burns out, you have nothing left. But to the other person, they are just a flashlight; they can keep putting in new batteries, forever maintaining vitality.
Loving someone too much makes them get used to your kindness towards them and forget that they should also give back, forget that you need equal returns - they are completely spoiled by you. Don't assume that if you love someone ten parts, they will love you ten parts in return. Love doesn't follow reasons, so often, love is unequal. Don't love someone so much that you lose yourself entirely. Such all-encompassing love should only appear in novels. This society increasingly disapproves of reckless love. Give her breathing space, and leave some room for yourself - although a love like a moth flying into fire seems grand while it lasts, what will you do when it ends, and you're left with a mess? After investing so much, can you face the heavy losses?
Sometimes, you might feel that your love is great, but it's all because you're too obsessed. You're just moved by yourself. At this point, you need to focus on your own life circle. No one can know how God plans our future, nor can we be sure that she is the happiness of your entire life. Happy people stand as if on clouds; the future cannot be predicted...
Love is not a game, but too many people in this society have already turned it into one. Therefore, we must learn to treat ourselves kindly. Don't always put her thoughts first, especially when she isn't worth it. Learn to say "no" gracefully and turn around with a smile.
So, don't love someone to the fullest extent; eight parts are enough. Use the remaining two parts to love yourself.
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