Are virgins more pleasing to women in bed?

by sdch3342 on 2009-12-04 23:33:44

There's no special reason, and there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, but simply having no interest in virgins. Behind the overwhelming "virgin complex," women have strongly criticized, saying things like, "Do you really love her and still care about that membrane?" Some sarcastically argue that many girls, in response to the call for gender equality, have started so-called "male-virgin complex" or "maiden complex." My goodness, how is this any different from those ignorant men? Hate him, and care if he is a virgin?

Reasons for not loving virgins:

Making love should be an enjoyment, but virgins are often too nervous and awkward. I hate making love with virgins because they can be clumsy and lack finesse!

FIRST: Often, we hear girls say, "I'm not a virgin anymore, I'm dirty..." But what does it mean to be clean or dirty? Is sleeping with someone else automatically dirty? Such immature thinking!

Engaging a virgin woman with a virgin man might end up worse. Where is the happiness? The first time could be so embarrassing, tense, and awkward facing someone who doesn't understand empathy, gentleness, or even basic anatomy. This so-called virgin might also be influenced by pornography, daydreaming about how their "first time" will go. When they see the female body, they might get overly excited, resulting in unimaginable consequences... If things don’t go well, the virgin women may develop fear of sex, intense pain, and even sexual aversion.

Why bother? For the sake of so-called cleanliness, putting oneself through such awkwardness is unnecessary. It would be better to have an experienced partner help open the door to sexual pleasure. A skilled man understands your physical structure, reducing tension and pain, gently embracing you... leaving behind relatively pleasant memories...

SECOND, a woman shouldn't want a so-called virgin either. Think about it, when making love, two people need good chemistry. Facing a virgin man, he might be nervous and trying too hard to perform perfectly, leading to awkward situations where he might even need to turn on the light to find the right place, or worse, you might have to help him, creating further embarrassment. Where is the passion in that? Moreover, virgins often don't last long, finishing quickly without much effort. Watching his satisfied expression, what can you say... There are just too many issues...

THIRD, virgins often care most about whether their partner is also a virgin! Upon discovering that she isn't, he might become extremely angry because he feels it's unequal. He feels that since his woman has experience, she will compare him with other men, while he himself lacks experience and confidence. In such a situation, some men might feel humiliated, and even if they aren't chauvinists, under the guise of feminism, they act out their own enhanced version of the "virgin complex."

FOURTH, if a man I love is still a virgin, I would seriously reconsider my judgment of him! Nowadays, boyfriends are often older, like 30-year-olds. If he is still a virgin, I would start questioning his honesty and seriously reconsider our relationship. You think about it, a grown man still being a virgin makes me feel like he lacks ability. At his age, he should have had some girlfriends by now. If none have been intimate with him, it means he is either sick or simply unable to attract women!!! People don't believe in the concept of "remaining pure" anymore. The ultimate goal of a normal man in a relationship is to marry a woman. So, a man who can't even attract a woman, why should I love him... That's just finding trouble for myself!! And he might be particularly indecisive...