"The complex life makes me cherish what I have more. Spiritual satisfaction can never compare to the contentment of the heart. The life others give us will not be the life we truly desire. Life is not always good, but as long as you are satisfied, then your current life is a good one. Similarly, if you're not satisfied, it's not good. We often desperately chase after the life we want and lose the simplest life that originally belonged to us, losing the initial happiness."
"What is life... I've asked myself countless times. No one tells us, life is like ants outside the Rongmu Cave, endlessly searching for food. What kind of logic is this? If life is just about running around for food, what's the point? It would be better to die and avoid the exhaustion of living every day for so-called life. This thought disappears quickly because I am still alive."
"When setbacks come suddenly again and again, I ask everyone: Why can't life be simpler? Isn't it just about eating and drinking every day? Why put ourselves in deep trouble? Why endure the pain of failure? Why pretend to be strong? Especially women, why live so weakly? Isn't it innocent? Thinking about someone who doesn't love you makes you feel innocent because that person will never miss you as much as you think of them. Thinking about a life that no longer exists in this world also makes you feel innocent because the pain makes it hard to breathe. Walking ahead of others' success while waving your own failure still makes you feel innocent because you clearly know that others' achievements are related to you, and you need to understand the importance of being content or striving for more."
"All these questions make me yearn for a happy lifestyle, which is a simple way of living without worries and free from worldly disturbances."
"Many people ask me, what exactly is simple happiness? Is it having loving parents, a caring partner? Or is it having a stable job? Or is it being an unlucky woman who spends her days around the stove, spending small money, and not planning for the future? I hear no revelation, no one tells me the answer. In fact, none of us has the right answer, it all depends on our attitude towards life. Drinking tea, reading books, listening to music, do you feel at ease? Chatting with good friends, exchanging the bits and pieces of life, do you feel like you're enjoying life? Occasionally being affectionate with your children, can you feel the joy of childhood?"
"Happiness needs reasons. At least, I think so. My life keeps getting hit, keeps getting comforted; I keep learning, keep feeling, because I keep growing. I need to face life. Someone said, happiness doesn't need reasons, just a strange and beautiful hope, and that can fulfill a possible happiness. Because of this, I no longer lack any reason to fly. If a person can breathe freely, can have ten minutes of indulgent laziness, most importantly, can have such deep affection that they don't fear anything, then they must be the happiest person in the world. Isn't this expectation, given by oneself, a reason for oneself? A person's happiness comes from exploring the details of daily life, or capturing its traces in a moment, or perhaps the feeling of hugging and playing with a loved one. These fragments, I can interpret them as happiness."
"When you're happy, you're very happy, when you lose something, you lose greatly. When you're lost, pure happiness becomes a sacrifice, making you feel cheap because you have to face the heavy burden of life and be troubled. Once you had all the happiness, you hoped life could be more colorful, even more spectacular. When you have many prosperous things, the tired and full heart makes you feel glad, dreaming of a pure life. When the long-awaited love falls by your side, you calmly forget the past happiness, thinking there will be no more sorrow in this world, even the ideal pressure that makes you breathless seems vulgar at that moment, willing to indulge in that love, sinking deeper, not wanting to wake up."
"But life must be faced, because we are still alive. I am still alive, since I am alive, I need to understand the meaning of life. Now, nothing makes me feel more excited than the word 'life', because it is very real, the harsh reality far exceeds happiness. I can no longer leisurely taste fragrant tea, I can no longer quietly listen to music, the sad book in my hand can no longer make me calm down and read."
"Love in life, continuously, every moment."
"There is a kind of love, because it is free and simple, because it is taciturn and beautiful, it can have any form of reason." But this is the love we understand. This kind of love, no matter whose mood, is like a cup of coffee with brandy, pure and fragrant. The whole world seems to progress in this minute of warmth, only because of love. But when you don't get this kind of love, even holding a good book, even the music playing your favorite song, even the tea smells good, even your heart is peaceful, it's absolutely not the happiness you want."
"In the end, love, passion, romance, heartbeat, deeply stimulate every man and woman. That first-time encounter makes few people believe that great love has no breakup, no greatness, and no bone-chilling pain. However, when all that is over, people must return to calmness, must face the trivialities of life. We cannot say that because the passion fades, we stop loving, nor can we say that because we fear the romance will fade one day, we choose not to fall in love anymore. Love must continue, none of us can live without love. This situation is like how human life ultimately faces an unchangeable reality - birth! People are destined to die, no one can fully explain why we are born and why we must die. Even though the various hardships of life often make us feel exhausted and weary of life, those who are still alive will continue to struggle and fight in life..."
"The love in my hands, I know that if I slightly relax, it will slip away between my fingers. Just thinking about it possibly leaving me makes me unable to stop worrying. Of course, loneliness has no love, neither does complaint and jealousy, possession and weakness cannot obtain hatred. Love needs the delicate feeling like a stream flowing gently, maybe just for a moment, happiness is so directly born because of satisfaction."