Many men regard kissing as a foreplay for sexual intercourse, with the intention of quickly moving past it. However, this impatient attitude often repels many women! Although each person has different definitions for how long a kiss should last, on average, women still feel that men don't kiss them enough. Men tend to overlook the fact that women's sexual needs are still rooted in love; they require emotional engagement. Perhaps, during the moment of the kiss, what your female partner envisions is a scene akin to a romantic movie poster - she is immersed in the joy of love, feeling cared for and cherished.