Let's share this classic essay together!
1. Don't start a relationship just because you're lonely. Time is a devil. Over the long term, if you are sentimental, even if you don't love the other person, you may still develop feelings for them. What will you do then?
2. Don't get married out of a sense of responsibility. You should know that marrying someone you don't love is the most irresponsible thing to do. Even if it causes the other person great sadness at the moment, it's better than making them sad for years or even a lifetime.
3. No matter how old you are, no matter how much your family and friends urge you, never take marriage lightly. Marriage isn't like playing cards; reshuffling comes at a huge cost.
4. In matters of the heart, there's rarely a clear right or wrong. If he (or she) wants to leave you, it's usually because there's something about you that doesn't satisfy them. Looking back on the days you spent together, they were always good. Of course, there are also those despicable感情scammers whose sweet talk is only meant to deceive the other person into sleeping with them. But such people are in the minority.
5. It's not a problem to date someone with different living habits, but you should be cautious about marrying them. Consider whether you can endure each other's differences over the long term.
6. Some say that when dating, you should find someone you like, and when marrying, you should find someone who likes you. This view is one-sided. What's the point of having a lover who doesn't like you? How can you spend the rest of your life with a wife you don't like?
7. If you truly love someone, try to make them happy as much as possible. When they're happy, you'll be happy too, and then both of you will have passion.
8. Don't give up on pursuing someone just because you're not as good-looking as them. Looks are just a first impression. What really determines whether two people can be together mainly depends on their personalities. I've seen too many handsome men paired with plain women, and vice versa.
9. Women need to learn how to dress up and look beautiful. Don't use simplicity as an excuse, and don't use housework as a justification. If you don't understand fashion, you're not a complete woman.
10. The duration of time spent in love...