In fact, sometimes two people in love are not together not because they are unsuitable or do not love each other. Maybe it's because they love each other too much, so the unintentional words of the other may inadvertently hurt you. Therefore, both sides deliberately say some hurtful words to each other and even go their separate ways. But in their hearts, they have ten thousand regrets. They just give up the chance to know each other again and fall in love again due to face or fear of being rejected by the other side. Since that's the case, why not try to be inclusive!
A silent abandonment once: abandoning a friend who is admired but has no destiny; abandoning a kind of investment but fruitless feeling; abandoning a kind of spiritual expectation; abandoning a kind of thought. At this time, a kind of sadness will arise, but this sadness does not hinder oneself from starting again!
There was once a feeling, wanting it to become forever. After many years, I found it gradually fading away. Then I realized: what we hold in our hands is not necessarily what we truly own; what we own is not necessarily what we truly engrave in our hearts! In fact, life often needs conscious abandonment!
The world has too many beautiful things. For the beauty we do not possess, we are always yearning for and pursuing. In order to obtain, we are busy. In fact, what we really need often becomes clear only after many years, or even a lifetime without knowing the end! And for the beauty we already possess, we also have a sense of unease and worry because of the experience of getting and losing repeatedly. The sigh of the setting sun easily fades, the烦恼of flowers blooming and wilting, life is originally not happy!
Because when we possess, we may be losing; and when we abandon, we may regain. For all things, we actually cannot have absolute control. If we deliberately pursue and possess, it is difficult to get out of the dilemma of gain and loss.
I did not come to this world because of you, but because of you I am more attached to this world! If I can be with you, I will be grateful to this world. If I can't be with you, I will quietly walk away, yet still not lose my love and gratitude for this world. Grateful to God for letting me meet you and part with you, completing a poem created by God!" Life gives us endless sorrow, but also gives us a permanent answer. Thus, calmly accept a choice, firmly adhere to a transcendence! No matter how the worldly life changes, no matter how individuals choose, no matter how heavy the things in hand are, we are cowardly but brave, sad but comforted!
We walk into the depth of life as usual, we gradually abandon as usual, and gradually become firm!
There is a feeling that always admits to be "yearning" when insomnia;
There is a kind of fate that always believes to be "eternal" after waking up from a dream;
There is a kind of gaze that sees "attachment" only when breaking up;
Abandonment is also a kind of beauty
An umbrella has been held for a long time, even after the rain stops one is reluctant to put it down;
A bunch of flowers has been smelled for a long time, even after it withers one is reluctant to throw it away;
Persistence is ignorance.
But, I believe there are always some things worth sticking to in life, always some people worth waiting for, which make us learn to cherish, to give, and thus be happy and happy.
Like this persistence, sometimes even if it hurts, I will be happy with the pain.
However, the changes in the world let me start learning to carefully distinguish between persistence and blind persistence.
Remember someone told me a sentence: I stay because I cherish. Still a kind of persistence.
After giving your heart out, after silently persisting and waiting, after having the necessary tolerance and patience, what you want to keep will still leave, continuing to insist is blind persistence.
In love, persistence is to exchange true feelings with sincerity. If nothing comes back, persistence is to guard oneself.
Staying doesn't mean still loving; leaving doesn't mean not loving. Gaining isn't necessarily a blessing; losing isn't necessarily a misfortune.
As long as, after a relationship, we still believe in love, can still love, and still love ourselves.
People who love themselves will constantly pursue perfection, take responsibility for their emotions and actions. Only then are they qualified to love others, worthy of being loved.
But, loving oneself without self-discipline is dangerous, it can easily turn into selfishness.
"When the firelight lights up, time stops, we are free, we can say what we don't dare to say normally, do what we don't dare to do normally; when the firelight goes out, everything is like it never happened, time continues." When Sophie Marceau said this in "Heart Fire", I believe that in the flickering firelight, she broke free from the constraints of the secular world, lighting up the belief in love. Bumpy love is easy to shock the world, but such love requires more courage.
If you cannot love bravely, then leave bravely; if you cannot forgive, then hate boldly.
Hate is not lack of love, indifference is lack of love.
Love, seems like a sour word, I see it as the general term for all beautiful, upright, kind, and lovely emotions.
Because it is too cute, it often becomes a facade, hiding greed and possession behind...
Don't let love deceive yourself and others.
In short, those who dare to persist and pay for love will surely get the happiness they deserve!
Gripping too tightly may result in getting nothing...