Good men don't spoil, and bad men do. This statement is very accurate in reality. Although many women would outright deny this point or even scoff at it, the fact is that the courtship methods of bad men are indeed much more effective than those of good men.
The characteristics of a bad man include: being shameless, bold, good at lying, less constrained by morality, having many tricks up their sleeve, seizing opportunities when they arise without considering responsibility. And these traits precisely hit women's weak spots.
Assuming that a good man and a bad man with similar hardware conditions encounter the same woman, the destructive power of the bad man is N times stronger. First of all, the probability of a good man making a move is much smaller because good men have to consider taking responsibility before starting to pursue someone. Therefore, they won't chase after someone they don't completely like, someone whose conditions are not ripe yet, someone who already has a boyfriend, or someone with whom the future prospect doesn't look promising (for example, living in different cities). There are many restrictions. On the other hand, bad men don't plan to take responsibility anyway, so as long as the other party has some charm or is within reach, they will pursue them first.
Secondly, good men are honest; if they have no money or connections, they will tell the truth, and they will frankly admit the shortcomings of the female party, often disappointing women. Bad men, on the other hand, can easily make themselves appear superior by fabricating a couple of stories. Their sweet talk can easily make women feel elated, believing they have found a kindred spirit. In this restless social context, the fruits of a good man's years of hard work often cannot compare with the story fabricated by a bad man in just three minutes, which makes women's hearts flutter more.
Thirdly, good men always think about respecting the other party and will not take advantage of opportunities to molest them. Bad men, however, constantly stimulate women's hormones through teasing, alcohol, dancing, etc., and seize every opportunity to possess the other party. Once a woman's pleasure is aroused, she may quickly fall in love with this man. The effect of a bad man's one passionate night often surpasses the multiple silent contributions of a good man. Some naive women think that a man sleeping with them means he loves them; even more naive women believe that once they sleep with a man, they must fall in love with him. Women inherently have a gene for submission...