In the outdoor training courses of the company, the coach often advises everyone that in the face of misunderstanding and misunderstanding in life and work, we should have a balanced attitude. The coach of the expansion training company also often tells everyone such a story during the activity to warn everyone that they should keep a grateful heart for the people around them.
Li Mei used to work at the Statistics Bureau in a second-tier city as a well-paid civil servant, living a very stable life. That year, she met a boy whom she liked very much. The only drawback was that the boy's job was unstable, and after graduation, he worked as a real estate agent in a house company. For this point, all of Li Mei's family disagreed, but Li Mei couldn't let go of the boy.
Li Mei thought her figure and appearance were good, and she had a job that many people envied. As long as she didn't look down on the boy, he would never give her up. Unexpectedly, after a year of dating, the boy proposed to leave the city and develop in Beijing. Li Mei felt surprised, but she was also helpless. She couldn't give up her hard-earned job. But she understood the boy's situation - as a man, he didn't want to look like he was living off a woman. He wanted to make a name for himself.
After the boy arrived in Beijing, he occasionally called, but most of the time it was Li Mei who called him. Because Li Mei knew that mobile phones in Beijing weren't single-rate charged, she always called him to save him some phone bills. The boy kept changing jobs and moving in Beijing, and each time his tone sounded tired. Li Mei was very heartbroken, so she asked for a week off from her unit to visit the boy in Beijing. To Li Mei's surprise, when they met, she found that the boy seemed like a different person, looking energetic and not as exhausted as he said on the phone.
The boy invited her to have a simple breakfast at a KFC near the station. Li Mei proposed to check out the boy's place, but the boy hesitated. He said: "I don't live alone; I share with another person." Li Mei said: "That's fine, I just want to see if your neighbor is a good or bad person, so I can be reassured."
The boy had no choice but to take Li Mei to his place. The one who opened the door was a girl, not tall and quite ordinary-looking. Li Mei was stunned. Was the boy living with the girl? "She's my girlfriend..." the boy introduced awkwardly to Li Mei.
Li Mei felt as if struck by lightning, almost falling down. Without entering the door, she turned and ran towards the elevator. The boy caught up and explained the whole story to her. The girl was his girlfriend in college. They broke up when they graduated, and the girl came to Beijing. However, the boy couldn't forget her and followed her to Beijing.
Li Mei asked: "If that's the case, why did you date me? What am I?" The boy apologized with a "Sorry" and didn't say anything else. Li Mei felt played with, unable to understand what was so great about the mediocre girl who drifted around in Beijing. She lost her mind. Soon, she quit her job at the Statistics Bureau and came to Beijing too. When she met the boy in Beijing, he casually said: "I really don't know what you were thinking, why give up such a good job." Li Mei was both crying and laughing.
Li Mei originally thought that with her work experience at the Statistics Bureau, it would be easy to stand firm in Beijing, but reality proved that there was a fundamental difference between first-tier and second-tier cities. The transition from a slow-paced lifestyle to a fast-paced one made it difficult for her to adapt. After half a year, she was physically and mentally exhausted. Every night after work, she didn't want to return home. All day, apart from stressful work, she ate and slept alone. She felt like an ignored speck of dust, and even if she died in her apartment one day, no one would know. Looking at the crowded crowds, she felt her life was bleak, and she didn't know where her aimless self would end up. At this point, she no longer hated the boy; she hated herself. Why bother competing with such an ordinary girl? Without the boy, at least she still had a secure job and a comfortable life. Now, she had nothing.
Hatred is extremely destructive, and hating anything is not a wise move, even for "bad people and bad things." You reap what you sow. If you hold onto destructive thoughts, the harvest will inevitably be bitter fruits that are hard to swallow.
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