What qualifies as a true friend? Many people would unanimously think that it is those who share common aspirations. Because they have common interests and topics, etc., plastic bar stools. In my view, however, sharing common aspirations is not the key to having true friends; adversity is a gift, office desk.
In reality, when people interact with each other frequently, what they discover most easily about the other person are not their strengths but their flaws, and these flaws will appear more and more over time, requiring an understanding heart. Therefore, the key to whether ordinary friends can become true confidants lies in the tolerance and understanding of a friend's flaws. But often we only focus on discovering others' flaws without offering understanding for our friends' shortcomings. Hence, even so-called like-minded friends may maintain or sever their ties based on how well they understand each other’s imperfections. Otherwise, no matter how like-minded they may be, they could still part ways.
Therefore, a close friend is a rare and precious gift from heaven that one seldom encounters in a lifetime, requiring an understanding heart. I hope all friends can treat those around them with a heart full of understanding, reagent cabinet!