I've heard of a little story: There was a 22-year-old junior boy, many people asked him why he didn't have a girlfriend... He said: In the student era, most people around him were of similar age, so their values were also similar. They all thought about having a good job and a good partner in the future... Because their ideals were similar, the two would be very happy together, and it was easy for them to get together. As for whether dating would affect study, since it had both promoting and negative effects, it varied from person to person.
However, after graduation, due to work needs or postgraduate entrance examination needs, the two must be separated for a long time. Even if they made solemn vows before separation, the chances of meeting afterward would be very few. Don't say you will stick to your love, under the pressure of career, if you are distracted, you cannot make yourself better. And when you are at a low point in your career, the person who helps you up often makes you feel grateful, and you will find that this person is the most important person in your life. And the person you originally loved, out of love turns into hatred, and you lose a good friend instead. So, if someone wants to interact with you now, it is probably because they focus on short-term benefits and do not look far into the future. After all, dating requires more or less money, and the money is all the living expenses given by parents. You can't even earn money, don't have your own career, how can you spend money recklessly? In a sense, it's your parents helping you date, without relying on your own strength to pursue what you love. If you interact with such a person, if you are an ambitious person, you will break up sooner or later; if you are not an ambitious person, she will break up with you sooner or later. Because the competition in society is cruel, not being ambitious means being eliminated.
Lovers are not found by searching, because before fully understanding each other, one party can temporarily change themselves to attract the other, but once you fully understand each other, breaking up is just around the corner. So falling in love should be a gradual process, naturally coming together after knowing each other very well, even without confessing. Don't compromise easily because the other person seems nice, being nice is not all of love, you must plan for the future of your love.
If you encounter a girl you deeply love, and you feel she likes you too, most people would start dating directly... The consequence of doing so is as mentioned earlier, eventually losing the person you deeply love. You should care about her under the guise of friendship, maintain contact after graduation, and then work hard for her. When you have achieved something in your career, go find her. If she is still waiting for you at that time, it shows that you haven't misjudged her. Girl, if a boy quickly likes you, he will also quickly like others in the future. Love that comes late won't leave too early. We don't need to mature through heartbreaks, we should grow up using others' experiences of heartbreak.
Love in school is ignorant, love in society may be purposeful, only love that continues through adversity is eternal. Love is not about being with the person most suitable for you, but about encountering a person more suitable for you and keeping the promise you made to the person you love. Love is not two people looking into each other's eyes, but two people looking in the same direction.
The "loving you and doing these things for you" online looks very touching, because most people don't have this kind of love. Love is not a trend, you should have your own opinion. Before your ideal lover appears, you should have the perseverance to choose to stay single, rather than finding a substitute. Once you do so, the things circulating online will be the most basic in your love.
Boy, when dating, don't hold the idea of breaking up if it doesn't suit. You must consider carefully. Your girlfriend is your future wife. Marriage is just a useless piece of paper more. Marriage does not lock love, true love never needs any restraint. Once you choose to fall in love, you must have a sense of responsibility. You must take responsibility for being your parents' son, your wife's husband, and your future children's father!
Being single is not bad at all. You can still care about the person you like, making the public think you are a good friend; while people in love caring about others will cause jealousy, from the perspective of love, it is also a sign of not being loyal to love, but not caring about others will lose many friendships. Once you break up, you lose both the woman and the friendship. So being single now does not mean you don't yearn for love, but proves your infatuation with her in the future.
An excellent person being single indicates this person is good enough, an excellent person indulging in early love suggests this person's excellence is only superficial. Truly hoping for the other person's well-being is quietly caring about the other person behind the scenes. The best commitment is not loving you for ten thousand years, but not needing any commitment at all.
Source: Grassland Talent Network (http://www.job215.com)