1. The only people you can hurt are those who love you most in this world, because others basically don't care about you.
2. If I no longer give my sincere feelings to anything or anyone, or maybe I will no longer feel pain.
3. The greatest sorrow of friendship is that you treat someone as your best friend, but she doesn't treat you as her best friend like you do!
4. When a person trusts himself too much, or trusts/relies on someone else too much, and entrusts all his joys and sorrows to them, the one who hurts you in the end is often the person or thing you trust/value/depend on/can't let go of/care about the most.
5. Friendship is a feeling. Some people won't become friends no matter how many decades they spend together, while some people know after just one meeting that they will be friends.
6. There is no emotion in this world that does not hurt people. More or less, big or small, it will leave scars on your soul. In exchange for the joy of emotion, with scars as the price, and the joy of emotion as the reward for the scars.
7. The opposite side of love is not hate, but indifference.
8. We put down our dignity, we put down our stubbornness, but just because we can't put down a person.
9. If you cry, the one who loves you is laughing; when life ends, you laugh and the one who loves you cries.
10. No matter how good a friend is to you, there will always be a day when something he does makes you sad, and at that time you should learn to forgive.
11. In this world, there is no emotion that can go back. Even if it really goes back, you will find that everything has changed beyond recognition. The only thing that can go back is the memory in your heart. Yes, it cannot go back, so we can only keep moving forward.
12. Leave the pain and sadness to yourself, and don't vent the pain in your heart by hurting the ones you love.
13. When you want to inflict pain on people, all the pain should be inflicted on them quickly at once, because the shorter the time they taste the pain, the less angry they will be; when giving people benefits, give them gradually bit by bit, because only in such continuous giving can people feel your benefits to the fullest extent!
14. An enemy that can make you angry shows that you are not beyond his control; a friend that can make you angry shows that you still value his friendship.
15. When praising others, you must be sincere. Because most people can tell the difference between sugar and saccharin.
16. Loneliness is not innate, but begins from the moment you fall in love with someone.
17. When you hear someone say: "I can't forget!" What he's really saying is: "I don't want to forget!"
18. "All my life I've been closing the doors behind me!" When you close a door, you also leave everything behind, whether it's great achievements or annoying mistakes, then, you can start anew.
19. In the biological world, survival is a probability, an accident may happen every minute; frustration should be the norm, and smooth sailing is the exception.
20. You often need to experience certain pains before you can seriously think things through; only when your heart has been burned can you learn strength and silence! So, take the pain and sadness as premium coffee powder, take thinking as boiling hot water, brew a pot of bitter and strong coffee, drink it, and let it help you wake up.
21. What I tell the stone are things I'm afraid I'll forget, I want the stone to remember for me; what I tell the beach are things I'm afraid I won't forget, I want the beach to forget for me.
22. Friends rarely talk about the future, but their future often sees them still together; lovers always talk about the future, but they often have no future.
23. Love as if you've never loved before; dance as if no one is watching; sing as if no one is listening; live as if each day were the end of the world; earn money as if it weren't for the money.
24. I always thought I still liked him. Suddenly I realized, what stays in my heart is the him in my memories, and I - what I can't forget is the feelings I gave to him, not him!
25. Maybe some people are very nasty, some people are very despicable. But when I try to put myself in his shoes, I realize: he is even more pitiful than me. So please forgive all the people you have met, whether they are good or bad.