1. Loss. Loss is a blessing.
2. Diploma. Diploma is not equal to ability.
3. Pain. Strength can overcome all.
4. Unreasonable criticism. No one kicks a dead dog.
5. Looks. Looks don't represent the whole.
6. Situation. There's only truth or falsehood, no good or bad.
7. Hardship. Hardship is not a loss.
8. Sobbing. It's not weakness, it's relief.
9. Waiting. Waiting is a kind of happiness.
10. Dignity. A casual and indifferent life is a kind of enjoyment.
Zhang Fang