Who owes who happiness

Who owes who happiness? When the艳照门incident happened, Nicholas maintained the image of Zhang Bai Zhi, and now their marriage has also hit a red light. I want to ask: in this world, where is the person who once said they would not marry anyone but you? Back when Anita Mui and Andy Lau were together, she once said: "If after many years you have not married, and I have not married, then we will get married." Now one is in heaven, and one is on earth. Some promises are destined to be unfulfilled, at least in this life they cannot be fulfilled, and life is full of regrets like this.

When Leslie Cheung jumped from a building, it was rumored that he committed suicide for love. The brilliant superstar eventually fell. What about those promised loves and vows? In the end, they also flowed away with the waves.

In this life, who owes who's happiness? If there was no promise in the first place, then there would be no issue of owing or not owing. If there was no liking in the first place, then there would be no issue of loving or not loving. If there was no good love in the first place, then how can there be an issue of owing or not owing?

Every day in this world, people play the game of love or lack thereof, and many people are addicted to it. Ask the world: what is love, that makes people pledge their lives to each other? Did Zhuo Wen Jun, who ran away with Sima Xiang Ru at night, ever receive true love? Maybe she did, maybe she didn't? Was Hong Fu, who went to knock on Li Jing's inn door at midnight, ultimately happy?

How many instances of mutual support eventually lead to forgetting each other in the world? Many people want to "hold your hand and grow old with you," but when it comes down to it, they either back out or find excuses to run away. Happiness sometimes is like a flower in water or a moon in a mirror, visible but untouchable.

Eternal love is sometimes just casually spoken, vows are ultimately just empty promises, and in the arena of fame and fortune, there are too many exchanges and transactions, too much use and being used. So-called happiness is wrapped in too much materialism, eroded by too much profit, who can still give who happiness?

In university, the person who loves you will give you a rose, in society, the person who loves you will give you a villa or a car. Every time love and being loved requires material exchange. Without material, love seems hollow, and marriage is even more built on a material foundation. Without money, you owe the promise, and you owe the other person's happiness.

There is a person, maybe he once silently loved you, but because he could not meet your material needs, he chose to leave. After several years, you might meet again, you want to know if he is doing well, but he will no longer tell you anything. Because he loved you, he does not want you to know whether he is doing well or not. It's not that he doesn't want you to know, but he knows that even if you knew, it wouldn't mean anything, because the departure at the time was actually for your sake. If we say, who owes who's happiness, you are destined to owe him happiness.

The fable of the monkey carrying corn is known by everyone, the story of Buddha calling ordinary people to find the largest wheat ear in the field is also known by everyone. We always think that the best will come later, gradually forgetting to cherish what we have now. Finally, when the person who has been guarding you quietly leaves, we suddenly realize that the person we have always loved is the one who has been guarding us. And at this point, if you say he owes you happiness, then who owes him happiness?

We can come and go from this world alone, but we cannot hold hands or let go easily. Once you hold hands, do not let go, this is the rule in all love. If you want to give the person you love happiness, then never say the two words "break up." If you say them, you are destined to owe them happiness.

Many people only regret when they lose something. Unfortunately, this world does not sell regret pills, the only "moonlight box" has been sealed for a long time, you want it but cannot find it. Some people, some things, like a floating cloud drift away. Until they disappear without a trace, we realize that we did not cherish them before.

You can forget each other in the world, but you cannot hide together in the mountains. Too many principles, too much interest, too much debate over merits and demerits, leads to many loving couples ultimately parting ways, not for any other reason, just because their interests are different, and their paths are different. Different paths lead to different alliances. Those past loves gradually fade away, and in the end, they are like wilted night-blooming cereus, emitting a foul smell.

Loving, hating, hurting, injuring, after all these, it seems many people understand that happiness is something that can be encountered but not sought. Even if the person you love is standing in front of you, you would not have the courage to walk up and take his hand, nor would you have the reason to bring him home. The heart is a complex thing, how can love be simple? After being hurt, all love turns into hate, and in the end, it is either self-destruction or mutual destruction. I ask: who owes who happiness at this point?

In this world, who owes who happiness? In a realistic society filled with principles and rules, love needs to be nurtured within certain principles, just like birds in cages, if they fly out carelessly, they will surely die. Love that does not follow the principles will be judged and condemned by worldly eyes.

I have my own complexion, and I don't look at your face. This is a proud and arrogant era, many people stick multiple masks on their faces, remove one layer and there is another. The real face will never be exposed. Saying you will give someone happiness, but there is no action behind the empty promise; saying you love someone like a flower, but hating them like grass. Give you happiness, wash yourself clean and wait. Pitiful are those infatuated people, ultimately ending up with lifelong regrets.

Is it that I am too attached, or are you too indifferent?

We missed the season of mutual support, missed the age of forgetting each other in the world, missed the promise of holding each other's hands and growing old together. Are we going to keep missing, until the sea turns into mulberry fields?

I want to say: if you really love, please do not miss me who is by your side.

Before you are married,

Before I have taken a wife,

We join together, so you do not owe me happiness, and I do not owe you a promise.

Forever, never leaving or abandoning each other!

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