Live one day at a time, once you have a wife you'll know the bitterness. Even if your salary doubles, you still have to go to work everyday. You worry about your job title and reputation. Once things don't go your way, you get annoyed. You look forward to wearing new clothes and living in a new house all the time. Your wife gets dizzy while you are lazy and don't know how many meals you've had. You want to drive a new car but you don't have enough money. It's impossible to rob banks or commit fraud without getting caught and going to court. When you drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes out of boredom, your wife will still keep an eye on you. You want promotions and wealth, but unfortunately your ancestors' graves aren't smoking (a Chinese superstition). In humorous blessing messages, alas, be a good person and do good deeds, and find comfort in self-deprecating humor!