Men often use goal-oriented thinking to consider events, so he will increase a woman's sexual pleasure in what he considers to be the most effective way. Once he feels that she is about to be satisfied, he will continue or even further stimulate her. In fact, the secret to giving a woman more pleasure lies in: bringing her to the brink of orgasm, then temporarily withdrawing, slowing down, and reducing stimulation, and then starting again.
The most effective way to increase a woman's sexual pleasure is: slow down a bit when the woman reaches climax, and then intensify it again. Her anticipation for climax will gradually increase, and her body will also prepare for the final wave. Extending foreplay in this way will make women experience stronger passion.
In mutually attractive sexual activities, men must first reserve the energy needed to reach climax. When pausing and shifting focus to the woman, his stored energy remains in a relaxed state. After a while, when it’s his turn to reach climax, his pleasure will be very intense because he has waited long enough.
Women can use code words to hint to men about their current status. What these code words should say depends on the level of understanding between you two. When the man receives the code word, he can choose to continue stimulating her and let her reach climax, or he can choose to slow down and then re-stimulate her.