You may say that she is not smart enough, but you absolutely can't say that she is not pretty or not charming, and you can never say that she is so ugly, or that she has no feminine appeal at all. A smart man always knows how to talk nicely to women.
Women Need Emotional Bubbles
There's a saying: Women are easy to please. We often hear a silly woman say to her lover: Hey, can't you just flatter me? Even though I know what you might say may not be true, but if you flatter me, I still feel very happy inside.
Women need to be pleased, but not spoiled - this is the wisdom accumulated by men from their long-term life experience. Pleasing is not deceiving. Have you ever seen adults pleasing children? - Oh, don't cry, don't cry, stop crying, or the wolves will come! Oh, stop crying, stop crying, be a good girl/boy, and mom will buy you candy... Look, this is called pleasing.
When men please women, the situation is actually quite similar to adults pleasing children. Smart men know the weaknesses of women and understand the principle that women are easy to please. They often use their mouth to please women like children, making them dizzy with happiness.
The reason why women are easy to please is because they always need an emotional bubble to bathe their fragile and sensitive nerves and satisfy their inner vanity. The weakness of women is usually being easily trusting, especially of men's words. In life, there are not many women who can resist the sweet talk of men. Once deceived by men, they become dizzy and confused. The reason for this is still due to women's vanity and trust, which leads to men's insincere and slick attitudes.
As long as she is a woman, she may have a childish side, and may need your insincere flattery, or clever compliments and exaggerated praises. Therefore, as a man, you must learn some skills in flattering women. This is not called hypocrisy, not deception, but wisdom.
Women Like to Hear Sweet Words
In fact, this issue is very simple. Its subtlety lies in - for example, you can say without any hesitation to a woman that there is a dimple on her face that is originally not beautiful, but you absolutely cannot say that there is a very prominent pimple on her face! Do you understand what I mean?
Even you can say she is not smart enough, but you absolutely cannot say she is not beautiful or not charming, and you can never say that she is so ugly or that she has no feminine appeal at all. A smart man always knows how to talk nicely to women.
The world is too small, and life is too short. Between men and women, fundamentally speaking, there are really no big issues, especially in the emotional world. It's nothing more than trivial feelings, fragmented emotions, and topics and matters that can't be brought to the table. Since you understand this simple truth, as long as you have a little common intelligence, you will not only agree with my point of view, but also skillfully deal with the women you like. You will effortlessly pick up those nice, sweet words to say to the women you love.
For instance, women are generally particularly sensitive about their age, and they care a lot about how others perceive their age, especially how men see it. If you willingly tell a woman how young she looks and intentionally underestimate her age, she will believe your words without doubt. She feels that this is the highest reward for her. Hearing your words, her spirit will immediately perk up, and her smile will bloom like a peony in spring.
Thus, smart and clever men often use the technique of reducing a person's age and increasing the price of goods when facing women. They casually make up a wonderfully young age as an effortless gift to women upon meeting them. In reality, it's just moving the lips a bit, and they gain a great favor, earning a sincere gratitude. That woman indeed becomes cheerful, smiling widely.
Men Please Women, Both Sides Benefit
Take a look around, and you'll find that men who live freely and comfortably at home are generally masters of pleasing women. Their intelligence comes down to one thing - they grasp the natural weaknesses of women and act accordingly, catering to their preferences. Although their mouths spout few truths, they can please women to turn sadness into joy within three seconds, making them happily do their housework while humming songs. If they are pleased even more, the women will happily go out and buy Pierre Cardin for the men!
While the women willingly do all that, the smart men sit on the sofa reading newspapers, smirking secretly...
The foolish women in the world are probably all like this. Even if they clearly know that the men's words are not sincere and are likely just flattering them, they are still willing to believe in those sweet, irresponsible empty words.
Women need to be pleased, just as women need love. Don't ignore it. Pleasing women benefits both men and women.