Mr. and Mrs. Lin are my good friends. Once, when I went to their house to play, Mrs. Lin jokingly complained to me that Mr. Lin spends all day online, suspecting if he has an online lover. Mr. Lin hastily denied it, but his gaze towards me was somewhat meaningful.
Not long after, he gave me a call. He said there were some things he wanted to talk about with me:
"I really met someone online. It was extremely accidental, completely unexpected. Perhaps there is such a thing as fate between people; meeting her was a fate."
"You know I didn't originally know how to use the internet. My wife taught me how to chat on QQ, saying I would be too outdated if I didn't know this. At first, I thought chatting was really meaningless, a waste of time and energy, and quite boring, so I decided not to talk to strangers anymore."
"But that day, I suddenly saw her nameâWenqing. After looking at her personal information: 35 years old. I felt that at least she was a more mature woman, and suddenly had the impulse to talk to her."
"Interestingly, this Wenqing did not ask my name and age like others with caution. I still remember her first words to me: 'Why aren't you sleeping so late?' Because it was already midnight, my wife was already asleep. From that first time, I sensed that she was a considerate woman."
"That night we almost talked all night. I don't remember what we talked about now, I just know that I suddenly became eloquent and witty. Since then, every day I wanted to see her on QQ, even if we only exchanged a few words."
"She was willing to talk to me about the unpleasant things in her life and marriage, while I took on the role of a counselor. My marriage was also becoming increasingly mundane, but in the process of chatting with her, I slowly gained many new insights and reflections on marriage. So sometimes, it wasn't that I was counseling her, but rather counseling myself."
"I always thought there wouldn't be sincerity online, but after chatting with her for a period of time, I changed that view. She said the person she loved most was her husband, from chatting with her, I felt she was someone who takes responsibility for her family and feelings. Just like many marriages, she and her husband lacked necessary emotional and spiritual communication."
"I sat in front of the computer every day as if I had an appointment to chat with her. We talked about living habits, personalities, lovers, children, and we found we had many similarities. She said she liked to eat snacks, competing with her son for them, and I said I did too; she said she was lazy, sleeping until noon on Sundays, and I said I did too; she said she was old-fashioned, and wouldn't do anything to betray her husband, and I said I wouldn't betray my wife either... When talking with her, I could completely let go, saying whatever I wanted without having to think about what should or shouldn't be said."
"One day, the computer at home broke down, and I lost contact with her. I was really restless, even having the impulse to go to an internet cafe, but considering my age, sitting in an internet cafe chatting, how would others look at me? I didn't have the courage."
"For three whole days, she was all I could think about, I almost couldn't focus on my own work. Finally, I couldn't resist and walked into an internet cafe. She said she had missed me these past few days, asking why I hadn't come to see her, and I didn't tell her that I had actually come to the internet cafe just to see her. I asked myself: Had I unknowingly fallen in love?"
"Finally one day, she told me she probably fell in love with me, asking if this was a betrayal of her husband. Originally, we were both suffering the same torment, both in the same dangerous situation."
"Even though we never met, I was sure I had fallen in love with her. Before, I never thought I would fall in love with a woman other than my wife, does that mean I've become an unfaithful husband?"
"Sometimes, I really wanted to see what she looked like. But I was also afraid, afraid that in reality we would face unsolvable problems; afraid that once we meet, we might not even be able to remain friends. She said, she shared the same thoughts as me, our love can only exist online, in that unrealistic world."
"We continued to keep in touch through the network, neither knowing each other's phone number or address. As she said, maybe we had been stuck in our respective lives for too long, so we stepped out for a breath of fresh air on a sunny afternoon. But when the sun sets, we still have to return to our own homes, playing the roles of good husbands and wives..."
"Some say the internet is a gentle trap. After listening to Lin Hao's story, I believed it. I told Lin Hao, the difference between virtuality and reality is just a step away, a fleeting thought. Be sure to hold onto that line. To avoid making a big mistake, let this online romance end here!"
Alimama, help you realize your dream of earning money online, turning traffic into cash!