It's an easy thing to make a man fall in love with a woman. Attraction at first sight, mutual affection, eye contact, and the instant spark of love are just one of the millions of "love accidents" that happen around the world every day. But why does a man always carefully guard his "mental barrier", where vague and ambiguous words linger - "Isn't everything fine now?" "Can't you see my sincerity for you?" "Can you give me some time?"
One, Become His Air
Men can sometimes be more hesitant, more childish, and less courageous to take on love than women. He is like a fish swimming back and forth in the water, constantly singing the song "I want freedom." So you have to slowly seep into his life, making him comfortable and unaware, without feeling oppressed or restricted, just like air in the water. One day, he will realize that without you, it's like the air being sucked out, and he can't survive.
Two, Turn His Room Into Yours Too
If you try living together or are already living together, OK, it's simple. Gradually integrate your traces into his space. Unknowingly, there are more of your books on his bookshelf, Sarah Brightman's CD is something both of you like, so now only one copy is bought. And one morning when he wakes up, he finds that his toothbrush cup has become one of a pair of cute Winnie the Pooh cups... Such an overlapping two-person world, how could he distinguish between each other?
Three, Cook For Him
The most touching thing about men and women is eating together every day. If one day he says, "No matter how late I come home, I can drink the soup my wife cooks," then his life is probably impossible without you - look, he already calls you "wife." Transform sweet talk romance into three essential meals a day. "To capture the heart, first capture the stomach," though old-fashioned, it's an unshakable method.
Four, Be His "Psychological Mommy"
In the hearts of every seemingly strong man, there is a weak, soft place. There, even the strongest men are like six-year-old children. When he is most tired, he only wants to lie in your gentle embrace. When he is most confused, he sees you as the only person he can confide in. You are his spiritual dependence. He may have buddies or female friends, they only share his happiness. His real inner pain is only left for you. For him, life without you would be unimaginable.
Five, Still This Bowl of Medicine Called "Gentleness"
Winning the heart is paramount, which is the highest principle to capture a man's heart. Smart women understand the hearts of men well. "I believe I will never find such a woman in this life," once he makes such a conclusion, no matter how many eager girlfriends he has around him, they will all fade away. This bowl of medicine called "gentleness" is the best way to corrode a man's thinking ability.
Six, Discover Commonalities To The Maximum
Love seems so accidental, but at the very beginning, what made you passionately discuss: a concert, a CD, a comic book, a city you both visited? It's always those shared interests and similar hearts that infect each other. Find them out and magnify them. If you were once travel companions, then on every trip of his, you are the perfect partner. If his favorite thing is a camera, why not become his forever model in front of the lens?
Seven, Be His "Little Cutie" In Life
The female protagonist in Shike's novel "A Total Mess" is also a little cutie. The male protagonist originally had no intention of getting married, but her cuteness was irresistible. She would sneak up on him like a kitten while he was writing, and stubbornly moved her things into his house, refusing to leave from the bedside... The little points of cuteness melted the man's heart. After she left, he realized that life without her was actually "a total mess."
Eight, Board The "Desire Streetcar"
This episode's story is called "Desire Streetcar". If his body still calls you "stranger", would he really stay as a "Platonic lover" forever? The noblewoman in the hall, the wanton woman in bed, these two indispensable skills of a perfect woman. If he can reach the ethereal clouds with you every time, how could he escape?
Nine, Super Life Manager
Every morning when he wakes up, he shouts, "Where is my watch?" "Where is my racket?" Without you, he will never find last summer's white T-shirt, the tie given by his ex-girlfriend, and might even use an old towel intended for rags to wipe his face again. It's you who makes his home not look like a "nest." Isn't this truly how a person should live?
Ten, Become His Mother's Darling
Mommy's words are the "weakness" of all obedient boys. Find a reason to meet his mother and win her favor. If the old lady keeps praising you in front of him, then he probably can never kick you out of his life.