Find someone who can share hardships with you, not just enjoyments. Find someone who can share responsibilities with you, not someone to run away with. Find someone who will take responsibility for you, not just for the sake of love. Love is blind, but life is realistic. Because love is merely a product humans create to escape reality. To escape reality, I sought love. To seek love, I lost true feelings. And having lost true feelings, I found myself already trapped in falsehood.
Love is never something you look for when you lack it, nor is it something you change when you're tired. What do you think love is? A little bit of infatuation, a little bit of impulse, a hug, a kiss? Naive people watch too many Japanese dramas and read too much of痞子蔡's writings. This might be part of love, but it is certainly not the majority. The main body of love is life, living together.
You may be able to accompany her through temporary sadness, but can you stand by her through all the pressures? You may be able to give her physical warmth, but can you offer her direction in life? Have you ever imagined that when passion fades, and hugs no longer hold any appeal for you, how will you continue?
Distance is the test of true love, with time providing the answer. For the one you deeply love, please make some sacrifices and protect your love. Otherwise, how can you talk about real love? You can forget past vows, but remember your own sincerity. Ask yourself, do you love so deeply? Are you willing to let both of you get hurt? Love is never something you look for when you lack it, nor is it something you change when you're tired.
Life isn't about one person living well alone; it's about how two people live well together. But due to some objective reasons, in reality, you two can't be together right now. Are you going to give up so easily and settle for less? Can't you wait for love? Do you allow yourself to be so shortsighted as to only see present happiness? Is this how life is meant to end? If it's true love, never give up.